"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NO ACTUALLY you don't know me.

Men call me "tough and picky" because they know that they cannot easily get in my pants.

You have to ACTUALLY be my type for me to like you. I have very specific requirements from hair style, to teeth, to nostrils, it's very hard to get in my pants.

The men that I speak of that I feel a connection with are those that are my type, so they can play me, lie to me anytime they want, I wouldn't care at all.

I instantly know what a man's intentions are. Many men have tried to spit game at me and all I did was roll my eyes. BUT I'm not always mean, I smile when they smile at me as to not be rude but when they approach me I usually walk away or pretend to be busy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by blueangel83
NO ACTUALLY you don't know me.

Men call me "tough and picky" because they know that they cannot easily get in my pants.

You have to ACTUALLY be my type for me to like you. I have very specific requirements from hair style, to teeth, to nostrils, it's very hard to get in my pants.

The men the I speak of that I feel a connection with are those that are my type, so they can play me, lie to me anytime they want, I wouldn't care at all.

I instantly know what a man's intentions are. Many men have tried to spit game at me and all I did was roll my eyes. BUT I'm not always mean, I smile when they smile at me as to not be rude but when they approach me I usually walk away or pretend to be busy.
Woman, you seriously don't belong here. This is not a site for you - unless you wanna learn to be a Don Juan.

Why did you ask a question about 'female dating help' on a 'male dating help' site? Just doesn't make sense. It's like asking how to calculate the velocity of a moving object while you're in art class. :-/
 

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Originally posted by blueangel83
NO ACTUALLY you don't know me.

Men call me "tough and picky" because they know that they cannot easily get in my pants.

You have to ACTUALLY be my type for me to like you. I have very specific requirements from hair style, to teeth, to nostrils, it's very hard to get in my pants.

The men the I speak of that I feel a connection with are those that are my type, so they can play me, lie to me anytime they want, I wouldn't care at all.
Because they are your physical type and it satisfy your ego and fantasy. That’s why you don't care. You’re using them.

Originally posted by blueangel83
I instantly know what a man's intentions are. Many men have tried to spit game at me and all I did was roll my eyes. BUT I'm not always mean, I smile when they smile at me as to not be rude but when they approach me I usually walk away or pretend to be busy.
That's great now you just prove how superficial and cold a women can be.

What are your intentions being on this site?

Quite obvious attention considering how many responses there are on this thread.

I tell ya every time a women post something in a thread it turns all about them. It totally gets off track about the posters original post and all the attention goe's to her and serves no one any good except for her.

I don't mind a woman coming here with suggestions and input. I do mind when she's an Attention ***** and Thread stopper.
 

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I have questions regarding the men that I'm about to date. I wanted to ask from a guy's perspective if these men are only toying with with me or not.

As of right now I am multitasking, posting on this site and typing my essay due in about an hour. When time permits, I'll post my story about these men so that you all can comment.
 

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Wrong.

The dude made it seem like I'm stupid and easy. I was merely explaining to him how his assumptions about me were wrong.

I'm not a cold and bitter person, I'm nice. I'm only mean when I'm disrespected. For instance, I was stalked god knows how many times and men whistling at me when I walk by. I just don't like to be disrespected. That's when I turn into a super b*tch, but I am really nice when you are.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Also...

I wanted to post some tips and advice to men who are interested in meeting good women.

I'll give you tips on different types of approach you can use on women THAT ACTUALLY WORK, but I just don't have time right now.

I'll post again when I'm done typing my report. I apologize if I've offended anyone.

Later.
 

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Originally posted by blueangel83
Wrong.

The dude made it seem like I'm stupid and easy. I was merely explaining to him how his assumptions about me were wrong.

I'm not a cold and bitter person, I'm nice. I'm only mean when I'm disrespected. For instance, I was stalked god knows how many times and men whistling at me when I walk by. I just don't like to be disrespected. That's when I turn into a super b*tch, but I am really nice when you are.
8========D - - - - - - - - blueangel83
 

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Originally posted by blueangel83

It's not like I asked what size penis you all men have in here. All I did was ask for a little advice.

but in case youre wondering....18 inches here :rolleyes:
 

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Blueangel,

are you even going to bother to follow up on the thread you posted on in "Mature Men", or are you just bouncing around?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey sorry, I was just busy. I couldn't find my other posts but I finally figured out how to do it, I checked my profile and clicked that link at the bottom right to get to my threads. I will now check them out.
 

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Originally posted by blueangel83
Hey sorry, I was just busy.
Suuuuure you were.... Please refrain from using the b-word on these forums.
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Bradshaws using Mystery's lines on the net...........what a tool.
Here is my tool...

8========D - - - - -- - - Smooth Player 056's mom







-muttley, sorry to poach your joke, but it was too funny to only use once.
 

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Originally posted by Bradshaw
Here is my tool...

8========D - - - - -- - - Smooth Player 056's mom







-muttley, sorry to poach your joke, but it was too funny to only use once.
Very Mature
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is it unthinkable to tell this ho to do a search under "Wyldfire" and close this thread?
 

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Originally posted by Gonzalo
Is it unthinkable to tell this ho to do a search under "Wyldfire" and close this thread?
I am actually astounded that this thread was not initially deleted. I am sure that I am not the only one who has always thought: troll.
 

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I have very specific requirements from hair style, to teeth, to nostrils, it's very hard to get in my pants.
Come on now..............nostrils? So if I had everything going for me except my "hair" according to your specifications, that means I have no chance? You must be one helluva fine specimen, how about you post a pick? You can blur out your face.
 

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Come on now..............nostrils? So if I had everything going for me except my "hair" according to your specifications, that means I have no chance?
An even better question: why are you supplicating to a faceless girl on the board?
 

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Excuse me, do not fault me for TRULY being busy. I have a life and a beneficial career that I want to pursue that's why I'm taking my studies very seriously.

So far, I've noticed a few very mature men on here. I am very impressed with your maturity. If you are wondering why you have a success rate of 0% with women, it is because of the attitudes that you portray, you have no respect whatsoever.

A faceless girl? the last time I recall, I posted my website url on the www field of my profile. If you had one bit of common sense, don't you think you'd check my profile? And yes those are my pictures, if you don't believe me, send me an email and I will respond back.

Tazman, I figured that if I thoroughly screen the men that I am going to sleep with that at least they would be my type, so that just incase I get played I wouldn't mind at all haha.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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