"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How Can I Determine If A Guy Likes Me?

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Originally posted by undesputable
is funny how guys like to throw game on the internet....
is funny how guys like to throw posts without screening them...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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haw you can determine if a guy likes you?

-if he calls you twice a day every day
-if he spends all his free time folowing you around
-if he can't tell you enough time that he "loves" you and can't live without you.
-if he buys you things, just because it's monday, or tuesday, wednesday......
-if he agrees with everything you say
-if he does everything you ask him to do as if it was a command from god himself....

If a guys does MOST of those things, HE REALLY DOES LIKE YOU.

otherwise
we are sexually attraced to you and want to find out if your cool. if you turn out to be emotional psycho, with no life of her own (or brains of her own) we just might stick around long enough to get laid (just to get something for putting up with your dumb ass).

also

one way to find out if a guy likes you is through sex. If he is naling you like your a piece of fresh meet, then chances are your out of luck. If he is little more emotionaly involved when naling you like a fresh piece of meat, then congrads:up:
 

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*sigh*

FOOLS!
 

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blueangel83, I seriously think that this is going somewhere. I don't know, it's just that I feel this INCREDIBLE CONNECTION between us. It feels like there is something BELOW ME that just needs to come out. Did you know that Elvis really had blonde hair?



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To the one previous poster who didn't get that my posts on this thread were purely satirical;

I realize now why he didn't get it. He actually is pm'ed me and asked what I was doing. I slowly explained it to him (a couple of times actually). We have bonded now. I am going to help him get his acting career back together. Apparently, ever since his tv show "Life Goes On" got cancelled his life has been downhill.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This thread just proves why we don't need another woman on this site.

Or maybe we do cause they just keep proving us MEN right.
 

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Originally posted by blueangel83
How can a female tell if a male truly likes her? not in a sexual sense. In my opinion, men out there are getting trickier and trickier, they act as if they want you but they only really want to bed you...................which I don't have a problem with because I only date good looking men.
Why do you make the assumption that only good looking men have "pure" intentions?

Ah I see, because since they are good looking, they have no problem getting some, and if they stay with you for a while then that means that they really like you, because....well they can have any woman they want right?

Flawed logic but hey it works!! It's a pretty useful shortcut.

Anyway, if a woman wants to find out if a man truly likes her, it's probably because of insecurity, because she doesn't believe that she can have any man out there. I'm not saying that she should have any man out there, just the attitude. Then, well she wouldn't care if a man truyl likes her because she will be free to leave him anytime and get another guy.

The same with guys. If they were confident and courageous (I guess you cannot be fearless) then they wouldn't ask questions such as "how do I know if she likes me for who I am?"
 

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F*CK YOU! I'M NOT A GUY YOU ***HOLE!

Ok sorry.....I'm usually not like that but SERIOUSLY, I'm no guy. I'm sick and tired of internet retards who keep accussing me of being a guy.

Hey One Legged? or Armed guy, what are you talking about? It's not like I asked what size penis you all men have in here. All I did was ask for a little advice.

Thank you for answering my question spider_007. Hmmm, most of the men I've been intimate with did seem like there was an emotional involvement. I tend to get rough even when there is emotion involve, so they usually can't tell :p
 

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"-if he calls you twice a day every day
-if he spends all his free time folowing you around
-if he can't tell you enough time that he "loves" you and can't live without you.
-if he buys you things, just because it's monday, or tuesday, wednesday......
-if he agrees with everything you say
-if he does everything you ask him to do as if it was a command from god himself....

If a guys does MOST of those things, HE REALLY DOES LIKE YOU."



I get that a lot, especially after the sex.....I'm that good :cheer: but I get annoyed when guys agree to everything I say.

Anything else? How do they act when they're around you???
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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-you can just tell by how he acts (how he looks at you or body language)

-if he gets to try to actually know you

-if he puts his own needs in front of your own

Truely, if he just tries to be with you whenever he can. Actually cares about you.

Most girls will just put this as creepy behavior though and dump the poor sap that actually cares about her and go out with the azzhole. I know that you will disagree with this statement but it is true. As long as he isn't a doormat, then he will be fine.
 

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I do not think that the behaviors you've mentioned are creepy at all, I would actually be drawn to the guy even more. I always appreciate it when a guy puts effort into wanting to get to know you better.

Altnough, men nowadays are very tricky.

They pretend to want to get to know you and while you're at it opening up to them, they're out there day dreaming about the next b*tch they want to bone in which I find amusing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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hi and welcome to our forum.
let me just start by telling you things that you will need to be prepared for....
1. you can learn lots of useful information here at this site
2. you will give lots of advise at this site
3. you will be asked for nude pics and to flash people on this site.
4. you will be argued with and ridiculed at times for being a woman and being on a mens site.
5. sometimes when some members have a bad day, they will tell you off and say "ban her"
6. you learn alot more about guys than you ever thought you would just from reading and replying to most of the posts here.
7. you will get pms full of help me questions and you will answer them to the best of your knowledgement.
8. guys will contact you via any chat program you have.
9. you will finally be accepted as a dj on this site and people will give you a break.
10. you will make great friendships with a few members at this site and be glad for that.


now that i have given you the basics, lets review your thread.
are you asking why guys argee to everything you say?
perhaps some of the ones you have been seeing have trouble saying their own opinions. perhaps they think if they disagree with you they will be out on the curb. or perhaps they simply are just nodding along, while playing you.
the answer is basically one of the silliest, only time will really tell.

so until then, just be yourself and stay true to that and have some fun.
 

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Originally posted by jiza101
ahah bradshaw, textbook routine right there :p
Check the rest of the thread. It is filled with overused material in my posts.:D The funniest part (for me anyway) was the guys who thought I was being serious.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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