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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How can i become popular at school?

the-tiger

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How can i become popular at school?

btw yes it is me i want a girl, i made a new thread coz all u lot where like change ur name so i did now in this thread plz answer my question and dont say change ur name again or nice name, JUST ANSWER THE QUESTION :)

Im not good at meeting girls or people and I heard girls liked popular people and im not to popular and the fit girls dono who i am and i dont know wot to say to people you dont know. So what can i say to people I dont know and how can i get popular thanks.



plz help thanks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Take a look at the extra-curricular activities that your school offers. If it's anything like mine, they've got your basic sports: football, basketball, baseball, track, wrestling, soccer, et cetera. Then there's the clubs... Students Against Drunk Driving, maybe a religious club Audio/Visual club, computer club or whatever. There's band, choir, academic games teams, debate teams, chess clubs, photography clubs, yearbook, student newspaper. Whatever. Find one that interests you. Sign up. Get involved in something.

Being popular isn't necessarily about knowing things to say to people you don't know. It's about getting to know people you don't know, and the easiest way to do that is to get involved in a common interest with different people.

PS: You did the right thing by changing your name.
 
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I suggest that you try approaching and talking to new people. It also really helps if there is something about yourself that is unique but people admire as well, not just on the outside but something about your personality as well.
 

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ennnnnttttt.... wrong answer guys

theres steps to be popular...and this works!

1) Say peoples names --> this shows you have interest in talking to them and you recognize them as a friend or w/e

2) Listen to what people have to say --> this shows that you care about other people and they might start referring to you for avice later

3) Tell every person something special --> everyone is unique and they want to be known for it. When you do this, you are telling them that they are special (e.g. hey bob, you made the football team good job! i wish i could've made it...your probably the best on the team) [something that makes them feel proud and maybe better than everyone else

4) umm i kinda forgot the 4th one lol sry

yeah its good to join extra curricular activities too and all that other sutff

PS this is how to be popular! it doesn't mean that you'll be cool
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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im kind of popular at school. well im just talking about having alot of friend girls. all you do is flirt with all the girls in your classes that you think are hot.
 

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What everyone else said.

I'm full of psychological disorders, lol, but I'm as popular as they get (through good stuff and bad stuff), by basically talking to alot of people and by standing up for myself when a teacher makes a bad decision.

If you defy authority when they're obviously wrong you're name will go around.

Also go to parties and do something funny or tell a story that will make people talk about later. Not something retarded like fall on your head drunk that'll give you a bad rep, but you know what I mean.

On a side note, since you're a DJ and obviously a cool guy you could just date the hottest cheerleader and everything else I said wont matter.
 
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