"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How can I bang this girl?

thewarrior

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A girl I've been interested in sexually is away for two weeks but will be coming back next week. I want to **** her. I know I have a shot because we hung out a little while ago and she's very comfortable around me. Comfortable enough to strip down to panties and bra and snuggle with me.

What's the problem? She has a BF. But not like a two-year, living together relationship, but somebody she ****s on a regular basis. Anyway, the last time we met, I really wanted her but couldn't cross that line into getting some ass. I listened to what she said instead of her actions. She said that she don't want to cheat on him, but it wasn't very convincing. With the right moves, I could've had her sucking on my **** in no time.

So, I'm looking for some opinions from those who really know how to escalate and what to say in a situation like mine. How can I get her in the mood. I think touching her inner thigh and talking in a slower paced, sexy voice will help the mood. What are some other escalation tactics? Should I kiss her neck and then go for the mouth?

I've had sex before but it was with women who obviously wanted it. This girl wants it but needs a little motivation.

Thanks for all the help!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thewarrior said:
A girl I've been interested in sexually is away for two weeks but will be coming back next week. I want to **** her. I know I have a shot because we hung out a little while ago and she's very comfortable around me. Comfortable enough to strip down to panties and bra and snuggle with me.

What's the problem? She has a BF. But not like a two-year, living together relationship, but somebody she ****s on a regular basis. Anyway, the last time we met, I really wanted her but couldn't cross that line into getting some ass. I listened to what she said instead of her actions. She said that she don't want to cheat on him, but it wasn't very convincing. With the right moves, I could've had her sucking on my **** in no time.

So, I'm looking for some opinions from those who really know how to escalate and what to say in a situation like mine. How can I get her in the mood. I think touching her inner thigh and talking in a slower paced, sexy voice will help the mood. What are some other escalation tactics? Should I kiss her neck and then go for the mouth?

I've had sex before but it was with women who obviously wanted it. This girl wants it but needs a little motivation.

Thanks for all the help!
Be direct, it's quite obvious she wants you to be IMO. Stroke her hair, look her in the eye and move in for the kiss and take it from there. I was fooling around with this girl once (and granted she had sucked me off already) and I directly escalated the situation by declaring 'let's move this to the bedroom' and of course she abided. Take a shot man if she rejects you, then try and disassociate yourself from her and I guarantee she'll be the one calling you back.

Give us a shout on what happens bra...
 

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I like that. "Let's move this to the bedroom" Direct but not too direct like "let's ****". :)

I will report what happens. And if I strike out...oh well...there's other pu55y out there.
 
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