How Can I Attract A Total "10" In My Life?

[Tempest]

I have a question for you guys.

What do you think it takes to be able to attract a total "10" in your life?

I'm talking about not just attracting a 10 and hooking up with her. I'm talking about attracting this quality of a woman in your life and having a long-term, fulfilling relationship with her.

The reason why I bring this up, is because I know a lot of guys in this "community" who can attract women and have skills, but few that are capable of attracting the total "10's". Also, not many of the experts out there or the people I know have long-term fulfilling relationships with these quality women either.

I know guys who have been at it for 6+ years in this community going out, have made a lot of growth and can get attractive women, but not quite the total "10's".

I understand that a "10" is different for everyone and embodies personality as well, but I'm speaking generally here.

So, what do you think it takes?

Does it involve continue going to clubs and approaching women and improving yourself, until eventually you have the confidence and social skills to get a woman like that?

Does it involve transforming every aspect of your life and becoming super successful - great body, finances, social circle, lifestyle, etc?

What do you think has to happen?

I'm curious of your response.

 

[stayfly]

I think you have to ask yourself;

"what type of guy would a total 10 want to be with and stay with?"

basically, you have to have all ur shyt together from wealth to health to emotionally to mentally etc. etc.

especially for long term relationships with a 10

 

[Create Reality]

10s want what they want. Supply and Demand.

 

[Amazing]

Bring things to the table.

I assure you my friend with a club downtown has little problems attracting girls. Are they 10s? I don't know, not for me.

Are you talking models? that can be done as easy as coke + little social proof

same for actresses.



if you are saying great personality + looks.. just have the same.

 

[nismo-4]

What do you have to offer (bring to the table) to these 10's? What makes you a 10? You gotta have your sh*t together from looks, to wealth, to anything that will put you in the elite 8% of men. They can still cheat on you, but by being in that elite 8, you minimize your chances greatly because you are something that many women want and they will actively pursue you.

Become someone who 10's want and lust after. Simply put.

 

[Lexington]

Probably the easiest way is make yourself a sh*tload of money. If you do that, women are a secondary benefit after the tailored suits, mansions, private yachts and exotic cars!

 

[ENIGMA16]

Be content with yourself and your being. Everything follows.

Too vague?