How can I accept her actions

[Capt.America]

I have a problem accepting girls who smoke or drink. My gf used to but she says she thinks about doing it and it scares me . Most of the girls I messed wit smoked or drank and I hated it . I want a girl who's never drinker or smoked like me .

I have problems because I get insecure about them drinking snd smoking snd I know its not fair and unrealistic, how can I chsnge my mindset and not care about if a girl smokes or drinks? I often try to get girls to stop but they call me lame . I want to be able to date a girl who does these things and not feel any type of way about it ..

 

[Capt.America]

No need to accept it

What do u mean. Literally everyone drinks or smokes, unless I decide to be alone most likely I'll be dating a drinker or smoker .its rare to find a non smoker or drinker