"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How can a white boy get tan?

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Hi. Im 18, and Im pretty white. I get freckles and can tan a VERY LITTLE bit but after a lot of trips to the beach. I live right on the Florida coast, so getting the place to do it isn't a problem, but are there like...any tips on how to get it done better? I just want some color.

Oh and before anyone says anything, please don't tell me anything like
A) Youll get skin cancer! Youll die...that doesn't help me much, I already know.
B)Get a fake tan!....They look bad most of the time and I would feel like a pansy anyways.

Thanks!!
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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15 minutes each side, 2x a week. Should be looking better in a month. Also keep up the fluids. Tanning burns the water weight under your skin. Give it water to replinish the skin enough to where it doesn't burn.
 

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Tanning makes you feel like a sissy? Insecurites, my dear friend, will kill your game. I go tanning. Girls love the fact that a straight guy takes care of himself. It's noticable, if you go all the time. However, if you don't live at the tanning salon, it's not too bad. I just do it so I don't have tan lines. ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Something I've thought about is getting one of those UV bulbs and making your own "handheld tanning device" Just use a can to direct the direction of the UV...

I'm not sure if it has been done before nor how safe it would be.. but I think if someone were to market something liek that, it would deffinitely sell!
 
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Go outside. Take clothes off part you want to tan. Wait there until tanned.

Done.
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Tanning makes you feel like a sissy? Insecurites, my dear friend, will kill your game. I go tanning. Girls love the fact that a straight guy takes care of himself. It's noticable, if you go all the time. However, if you don't live at the tanning salon, it's not too bad. I just do it so I don't have tan lines. ;)
No..REAL tanning doesn't make me feel like a sissy...Im fine with that.

But a fake Spray on tan would make me feel a little bit on the ***** side...
 
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