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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
how bout this? send flowers but write a neg hit note
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Leykis
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Terrible idea. Those arent neg-hits they are insults.
Starman
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sending flowers is afc no matter how much you try to disguise it..because it shows you have went out of your way and spent your hard earned money on her
but if you are going to do it anyway..I like the neg hit idea..but try to make it a bit funnier..
but if you are going to do it anyway..I like the neg hit idea..but try to make it a bit funnier..
squirrels
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Yeah, and then she could send you some long-stemmed roses and say, "I hope their length doesn't intimidate you, you know, because of your small pen!s and all."
You obviously don't have an understand of what a "neg-hit" is. Please don't attempt to use them until you do.
You obviously don't have an understand of what a "neg-hit" is. Please don't attempt to use them until you do.
Tryin to Grow a Chin
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Let him pull whatever wacky stunt he wants. It leaves more women for us!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
AHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAhHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHA, now thats ****en wit, i bet you get your fair share of laughs from women dont ya! you bad bad boy!
About the flower, id say instead of giving her her first gift, which is usually 60 days since u started dating, then you can try it, but dont make it like an insult, be more funnier, and perhaps to make it more like a neg hit, dont make it expensive flowers. Just small cheap and NICE. Not cheap and cheap looking.
Comon guys he has some idea here.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Neg hits are great if they aren't outright insults. Don't use those examples, they don't make you ****y or funny. They just make you look like an @sshole.
By the way, anyone can send flowers, it takes no effort or imagination. Be creative and tone back on the insults.
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How is a neg hit DJism?
Ok, flowers with a rude remark is the DUMBEST strategy I've ever heard in my life. You'll come across like a split personality psychotic mofo. My God, just to think of that you have to be a psychotic mofo. How f'n stupid!
Look, there's a time to give flowers and a time not to. The time not to is real early in the relationship. The time to do it is when you're in something that's getting real good. You don't shower her with flowers, but you do present them in a classy way. That's NOT AFC.
I've read the DJ Bible, I've read the articles and I've yet to see anything on how insulting women relates to DJism. ****y and funny yes, insulting no.
For the 1 millionth time: DJism is about being the best you can be, not coming across like an a$$. I don't know one woman who would be impressed by that approach, and if I met one I wouldn't be impressed with her.
Ok, flowers with a rude remark is the DUMBEST strategy I've ever heard in my life. You'll come across like a split personality psychotic mofo. My God, just to think of that you have to be a psychotic mofo. How f'n stupid!
Look, there's a time to give flowers and a time not to. The time not to is real early in the relationship. The time to do it is when you're in something that's getting real good. You don't shower her with flowers, but you do present them in a classy way. That's NOT AFC.
I've read the DJ Bible, I've read the articles and I've yet to see anything on how insulting women relates to DJism. ****y and funny yes, insulting no.
For the 1 millionth time: DJism is about being the best you can be, not coming across like an a$$. I don't know one woman who would be impressed by that approach, and if I met one I wouldn't be impressed with her.
Starman
Master Don Juan
send her roses and say "To a very special gal, I took out the thorns because If I had left them on , you would have become way too thorny"
drixsa
Master Don Juan
wait r u dating this girl or trying to make a first approach?
cause if your dating i think thats pretty funny
cause if your dating i think thats pretty funny
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.