How big of a disadvantage is hairloss when trying to be a dj?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

grinder

Master Don Juan

Feb 4, 2007

It’s not about baldness, it’s about your self image and confidence. You only listed the opinion of 2 women of your hair.

Pretty sh*tty sample.

Try different styles and approach 20+ women with each style and see which seems to work the best. Make it an experiment.

If the opinion is having no hair reduces you pool of available women, then jump in a bigger fvcking pool!

No approach = no nookie no matter who you are.

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.