How big of a disadvantage is hairloss when trying to be a dj?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

grinder

Master Don Juan

Feb 4, 2007

It’s not about baldness, it’s about your self image and confidence. You only listed the opinion of 2 women of your hair.

Pretty sh*tty sample.

Try different styles and approach 20+ women with each style and see which seems to work the best. Make it an experiment.

If the opinion is having no hair reduces you pool of available women, then jump in a bigger fvcking pool!

No approach = no nookie no matter who you are.

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.