how best to handle this situation?

[drift king]

i've been encountering with a difficult HB who never commits to a time with anyone even her friends and it started to p1ss me off cos she cancelled on me twice cos she went on holiday travelling etc.

it got to a point now where i told her to give me a time to reserve this week and she kept giving me a wishy washy answer of maybe thursday.

i was already annoyed with her before cos she's so unreliable and she pretty left me with an ultimatum of 'well if u dont like how it is then go.' in other words if u dont want to put up with my last minute cancellations and arrangements then leave,

i proceeded to explain how what she does is spoilt and rude.. she got p1ssed with me i was p1ssed with her but it just told me what i needed to know.. that she has low interest. i was thinking that regardless if she's a flake to everyone.. if she likes you that way she'd go out of her way not to flake?

but my question is how should i have responded when she gave me her ultimatum of either putting up with her unreliability or leave?

 

[Tekniq]

leave her, she will come back eventually if you had a legitimate connection

 

[drift king]

already deleted her number and left it, i mean what should i have said in response?

i could have just said 'fine i'm awaiting your apology in due course..' then hang up. but in her mind she's in the right and i'm wrong.