When I was in high school, I was what is called "squirelly".
I was playing a game where i had no personality, apologized
for liking someone, and acted like a passive little girl.
I'd ask HER what she wanted to do, apologized for every
little thing, and bascially had no masculine presence.
But now:
1. I tend to tell people exactly what I'm thinking regardless
of whether it disagrees with her philosophies. For example,
when women play with the ridiculous idea that women are
equal, I'll tell them that in general men are stronger than
women physically and emotionally. (BTW, ALL women
secretly know this already, which is why YOU are expected
to ask her out and pay,,and eventually "ask her to marry
you")
2. If she asks if I date other women, I tell her I do.
3. If i wind up really liking someone during a first date,
I'll directly tell her (without fawning)that I'm "pretty
surprised to find out how attractive you are inside and out"
4. If she asks me to go to a chick flick, I'll tell her we're
not doing that (after all, Im paying, right?))
5. If she disrespects me (like the guy with the girl
who spent the whole night talking to her girlfriend) I
either LEAVE, or tell her to stop.
By the way, I'm always in EMOTIONAL CONTROL when I
speak. I don't act overly excited, even though I may be.
I lay out the consequence of her behavior, and let
her make a choice. Then i am DECISIVE.
I was playing a game where i had no personality, apologized
for liking someone, and acted like a passive little girl.
I'd ask HER what she wanted to do, apologized for every
little thing, and bascially had no masculine presence.
But now:
1. I tend to tell people exactly what I'm thinking regardless
of whether it disagrees with her philosophies. For example,
when women play with the ridiculous idea that women are
equal, I'll tell them that in general men are stronger than
women physically and emotionally. (BTW, ALL women
secretly know this already, which is why YOU are expected
to ask her out and pay,,and eventually "ask her to marry
you")
2. If she asks if I date other women, I tell her I do.
3. If i wind up really liking someone during a first date,
I'll directly tell her (without fawning)that I'm "pretty
surprised to find out how attractive you are inside and out"
4. If she asks me to go to a chick flick, I'll tell her we're
not doing that (after all, Im paying, right?))
5. If she disrespects me (like the guy with the girl
who spent the whole night talking to her girlfriend) I
either LEAVE, or tell her to stop.
By the way, I'm always in EMOTIONAL CONTROL when I
speak. I don't act overly excited, even though I may be.
I lay out the consequence of her behavior, and let
her make a choice. Then i am DECISIVE.
