"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how badly did i f* up this time

theshist

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So we're talkin on the phone and she's laughin A LOT, I'm talkin high IL, then her phone (cell phone) cuts out, and I get the voice mail cuz i just know she thinks i hung up on her and she's a lil' bitter about it. I left a msg sayin her phone's a pos or whatever and she rings me back. She wasn't laughin nearly as much thru the next 4 or 5 min of convo, but I still closed a date. Am I an AFC for callin back and leavin a msg, cuz no matter what I say, I'm pretty sure she thinks I hung up on her.


baaaaah!

Advice please :S
 

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legolas

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You're obviously worrying too much and trying to accomodate her feelings. If she's mad let her be mad, because if she's into you it will go away after a while. Trust me on this one!!
 

TesuqueRed

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You think she won't buy the ol' "cell phone lost connection" excuse---like, it's 2003 and who ever heard of a cell phone with poor connection?

Seriously, you're too sensitive and AFC-ish here. If she says "why'd you hang up on me?"--you reply "whaddya mean? You're phone cut out." --- notice no apologies or guilt or wussing out? It's a non-event--make it that way.
 
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