How bad is this.

[toasttopper1879]

What a kick in the balls this has been.Put loads of effort into one girl and she gives loads of decent signs back,good kino and body language and what happens.
She likes someone else.
What makes it worse is all the stuff we've talked about,like the getting to know each other stuff,shes also had the same conversations with the other bloke.She tells me she prefers younger men than me and how much she shares in common with her latest find.
I kept straight and encouraged her to go for this relationship and told her it sounded really good.
She then spends the next 40 minutes grilling me about who is my ideal girl,why I wont let any girl into my head and tells me I'm stuck in a rut cos I'm happy the way I am and I stay in contact with my ex.
Her conclusions are that SHE is my ideal girl and SHE can be the one to break me down and get inside my head.By the end of the conversatin she needs a older bloke with kids.
I told her that if she wanted me now then she'd have to come to me and I told her the vital ingridient would be that she'd have to actually like me if she thought she was so perfect for me.She made a exaggerated"OHHHHHHHH" and I turned n got away.
I'm a bit disapointed she really likes someone else but why does she continue to chase or tease me.

 

[muttley]

Sounds kinda bad dude. Personally i wouldnt let the conversation drift towards the subject of another guy and if it did i WOULD NOT inquire about him. Dont let her do this, or walk away. Start talking about other girls. Oh man , u shouldnt have pushed her in his direction, ya shouldnt have said "go for it" like you did

This girl seems a bit wierd , she likes the idea of guys chasin her. Show her whos boss.

 

[toasttopper1879]

Had to push her in his direction.She obviously likes him and i cant change that can I.Just did nt like the way she still reckons shes my perfect girl,shes even said where our first date will be.
She asking similar questions to the boy she says she likes to what shes telling me.Feels like maybe some sort of selection process.
Difference is tha he,s very much into her all the time with phone calls etc whereas I'm totally the oposite and make little contact.
Dont care how much I like this 1 I've got to get out of it now.

 

[ThisGuy]

In the long run, the DJ shall always prevail. Remember that.

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

well because it is fun for her to tease you........

do not get caught in a web kid. Bad things happen and we get disappointed and we break down, well....you better break back up.

If you put your faith in something other then women, not only will you have more, but you will not even give women who like to play games the time of day. The problem right now is siimple= she is the only bytch. She is the only bytch, because your faith is in women. Put your faith in something else, and you will be able to pick the *****s you want, and if they even....and I mean even think about acting a fool......right to the next ***** we go.

 

[wind20mph]

its not that bad.

Don't play her games, Bust her balls instead whenever she is out of place, put her back to her place.

Alwyas lead, Be a gentleman, open the doors for her, give her an equal sparingly touch and be her rhino.

Kino's are great, still be ****y and funny and playfully tease her back.

Probably she wanted to get laid and you are not getting it. LOL

Pay attenttion (Close Attention) she gives you hint. Always there are hints.