"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How bad is the refugee crisis hurting ethnic and brown guys?

Good Gao

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I've heard a lot about it in the news recently. It has hit western Europe hard and I heard it is hitting Canada hard as well. Not only that, as much as I like the idea of a Trump presidency, I am sure that Hillary will likely be elected president due to all of the angry minorities and SJWs voting against Trump in droves.

A lot of the Muslims and Arabs that come over from that part of the world tend to be extremely aggressive towards women while not having much game due to not really needing it in their part of the world.

I am wondering how this effects the guys with similar ethnic appearances as them (some latinos, south asian guys, and even westernized arabs). If what I hear is true, seems like things will only get worse for brown guys from here on out, as if they weren't already bad enough.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dhoulmagus

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Idk, my race is a victim of negative stigmas that has affected the dating game for me lol. I don't think one bad experience will ruin it for them though.
 

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Society is already suspusious of anyone of non-white Western/Southern European appearance and rightfully so. You may not like it and it may not be fair on yourself, but discrimination is natural and has kept me safe on multiple occasions.
 

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I've heard a lot about it in the news recently. It has hit western Europe hard and I heard it is hitting Canada hard as well. Not only that, as much as I like the idea of a Trump presidency, I am sure that Hillary will likely be elected president due to all of the angry minorities and SJWs voting against Trump in droves.

A lot of the Muslims and Arabs that come over from that part of the world tend to be extremely aggressive towards women while not having much game due to not really needing it in their part of the world.

I am wondering how this effects the guys with similar ethnic appearances as them (some latinos, south asian guys, and even westernized arabs). If what I hear is true, seems like things will only get worse for brown guys from here on out, as if they weren't already bad enough.
I am a latino and I am comfortable with my skin color and race, it doesnt matter what the world thinks,, its what you think about yourself that matters. If you ever cross someone ignorant that believes their race or culture is better, laugh it off or just be indifferent.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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