"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How bad is the body language for this gal this incel-tier man is trying to mack?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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what he needs to change is picking the right girls. This girl has a total different personality that would suit him. He needs a girl with a more bubbly crazy personality rather than a personality like himself.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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It was pretty cringy to watch. I agree with a lot of work this guy has a chance, but I disagree about picking the right girls. Absolutely zero women are going to be interested in him as he is right now. That girl in the video was ugly as hell and she still wasn’t interested. He’s fat, boring, and displays zero leadership qualities. If he and his date got into a dangerous situation, the woman would not feel safe and protected. I feel like if this guy started lifting and eating right, lost some weight, got a better hair cut, changed his mindset, and became less outcome dependent, he could at least start to generate some interest from women.
No man. The kind of girls that would suit him pick up guys like me on OLD. The girls that would suit me pick up guys that look better then me. This is the reallity. This man needs a change, not only to have a girl but also to wake up from... I dont know how to call it yet
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Better be careful with that. That’ll qualify you right into the friendzone. She will see you’re cool enough to keep around.....as friends. This girl dropped the friend bomb and didn’t mean it. Looks is all that matters. ALL that matters.
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He had that type of personality in the video. The girl was clammed up.
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His body was in proportion and the girl crossed her arms when she was there at the get-go. There are many guys out there looking like him or worst that have gfs (normally with Asians where I'm at). That is an aggressive and hostile stance not even a neutral one. She wasn't even nice to him.
Perhaps, but that's the only chance to close the gap. We already know the alternative. Watch The33secrets on YTube.
If I were her, I'd do the same thing. Heck even as a man I'd not want to be seen hanging around someone like that guy. Being overweight is one thing, looking grungy with possibly poor hygiene, the vibe he gives off like he likes in a cave, it's embarrassing.
Asians- the ones I've dated only dated guys who worked for Google/Microsoft/CxO at banks etc. I don't think anything general applies to a particular race.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Most girls when they aren’t interested, are mean as hell. Unless they can make you an orbiter and gain from it.
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...or Toronto.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.