"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How bad is it to ask directly for sex with a girl you just meet

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See I have no care to play the game and lead them on. Faking it for both me and her.

I have had people tell me they had sex with a girl who was walking her dog etc...how the hell does one do that?

Well off course must be slutty girl.

But I have been in situaion were I was cleaning buildign and often just me and 1 other female staff and I can see her watching me and as I walk past stuff like bend over putting there ass near me. OR asking me how many days Im working and when will be my last day...I was temp.

SO, maybe these women just want it there and then? How does one go about it in such scenario.

I recall in a hostel bar abroad one time this cute girl as I walked past her to the staircase totally bend over and practically made me rub against her ass as I had to squeeze past her. IMO it seemed an obvious signal.

ALso recently I was in a bar wathicng the football and I could sense this girl was aroudn me the whole time. Like totally stuck to me. I dont knwo if she wanted to get my attention but she did. I dont what to say though.

Another day I keep walking past this girl my age as go to work and she keeps looking at me and smiles and kinda shy laughing mayeb she want me to appraoch her as well?

SO girls can send vague signals but its up to guys to close the deal. But how? You cant just go up and say so you want sex then etc??

I Dont know.

How about another situation you meet a girl at a party and seem to connect, is it normal to swap numbers or say wanna head somewhere more quiet?

What about if you meet a girl and want to make her a fcuk buddy. She seems interested in you but how do you know if she wants sex, shes prude, she wants a relationship? You cant just talk to a random women who seems interested in you directly what they want can you?

Another example, I was cleaning in building temp job and there was 3 student girls my age or bit younger. One was real hot and always being kinda loud when I was aroudn as if to attract attention. SO I woudl defintaly want her but what do I do. GO up to her and ask if she wants to meet up sometime? Thats a bit forward no?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fred_Scuttle

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you ask way too many questions. the only way youre going to find out and learn anything about women is through experience. that is the only way. advice and books wont help you until you actually do it yourself because you never felt anything or did anything with it. we never had all this stuff. we went out and got girls and learned the tricks of the trade through friends and our own experiences. i can tell you one thing back in the day guys could game chicks like you couldnt believe better than the guys who think they are so great today. because they werent up to date on our tricks and instead of sitting around and asking they went out and did the chicks some asking and they got laid. get off your butts and go out there and get experience. that is the best advice you can give anybody.
 

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According to mystery, youll typically have to go through 3 phases before you can have sex: Attraction, Comfort, and Seduction. It should take about 7 hours and 15 DHV's.

Women will not complete you. You need to work on completing urself first.
So get a job, find a hobby, do your own research. GO OUTSIDE. do martial arts. Get drunk. Variety is the spice of life. Women can't fill any void.
So find out who you are. Don't be introverted.

People generally don't give a **** about you if they don't know you, so stop worrying about being judged. U need to cross borders here. BROADEN YOUR HORIZONS. test all your limits. And like Fred said: get experience.
 
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Current Situation!!!!

Ok a new waitress is working in my resataruant im doing deliveries

She is about 7-8 not to bad at all and a bit younger than me.

I havent spoke to her dont know if thats odd or not? I deliver pizzas I hang in restatunat sometimes, should I have spoke to her? said what?

So, everytime she walks past me shell be like ''sorry'' is she intimatated in a bad or a good way lol? She keeps saying sorry all time.

What signs should I look for or things to do to see if she is or is not interested?

Should I speak to her? If so how?

I said bye she said bye back
 

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1. she aint interested.
2. I aint gonna answer u anymore.
3. Read my previous post, and gtfo it's friday.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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