"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How are you guys handling this isolating ****?

captain55

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I miss traveling the world or across the country knowing I was going to meet beautiful women. I miss going to clubs and bars with my friends to chase women. I miss being able to just meet a chick at a coffee shop.

for those of you who don’t do the online date ****, how are you handling this thing mentally? Going out and gaming was a huge part of my life
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Kotaix

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I've been seeing much more interest popping up on tinder, but I just met a a chick with few red flags so I've been exploring that and ignoring tinder for the most part It's been a very interesting time for me.
 

deadmasterx

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Honestly after few days going on fire with online dating and having some fun, I'm honestly pretty bored and just spend my day working out, playing or scrolling some lame social media stuff. Left a lot of chats on to be read for days and definitely not feeling like replying them now. Even my ex sent me messages, I still have a some feelings for her and would usually behave a bit beta, but guess what, she's also left to be read. I'm honestly just tired of gaming and stuff, wondering why we go so far for the ladies.

Not surprisingly, I'm getting more messages than ever now thanks to that. Let them wait.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Solomon

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Been working out a lot
working a lot
met a lot of women---the comforts from home allowed me to maximize my online game, however after awhile it was exhausting and the last couple weeks have been spending less time online. coincidentally I went from no plates to now spinning 3. 2 of them want more than something casual.

Dont get me wrong women are fun but a lot of energy, attention and constant banging will have you neglect other aspects of your life if you're not careful
 

Alvafe

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I miss traveling the world or across the country knowing I was going to meet beautiful women. I miss going to clubs and bars with my friends to chase women. I miss being able to just meet a chick at a coffee shop.

for those of you who don’t do the online date ****, how are you handling this thing mentally? Going out and gaming was a huge part of my life
you really did all that? come on now.

at most? ignore the fearmongering and still go to work, most places are closed true, but you can still do things
 

Blacksheep

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Working on projects mostly and improving skills.

Also studying ways to make money.

Meditation is good during this time, put some isochronic tones (find on youtube) and take a time to meditate and think about stuffs.

For fun I'm playing mario kart on nintendo wii haha
 

skinnyguy

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Meditating, working, spending time outside. If a guy says he’s doing fine and still laying tons of women, he’s probably lying. Everyone is having a hard time and wishing things were back to normal. You are not alone in missing things like travel and being able to go out to fun spots around town or the gyms. The decrease in options has made everyone scramble with what to do with all of their time.
 

GoodOne123

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I'm doing everything I can to come out of this lockdown a better man. That's all you can really do.

When this is over my body will be on point, I'll have made money on the stock market, and the instagram account I built will have over 2k followers. I'll be in a way better position to pull more women than before the lockdown.

This is probably the only time in our lives where we will have this much free time. Use it
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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captain55

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Meditating, working, spending time outside. If a guy says he’s doing fine and still laying tons of women, he’s probably lying. Everyone is having a hard time and wishing things were back to normal. You are not alone in missing things like travel and being able to go out to fun spots around town or the gyms. The decrease in options has made everyone scramble with what to do with all of their time.
Or they are banging 5’s. Not that 9’s and 10’s are not online they are, but your odds of pulling are a lot less than in real life.
To me it’s about the chase and going out with friends and having a good time.i enjoy it
 

Hamurabimbi

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No impact at all. Other than GF & I watching movies at night rather than going out. As nothing is open.
 
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