"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How are you calculating your BMR?

medjaun

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I found this site:

http://www.caloriesperhour.com/index_burn.html

Seems pretty good but then I found another site that gave me a lower BMR.

The one above though takes in consideration your activity so maybe thats why.

Found this one too:

http://www.bmi-calculator.net/bmr-calculator/harris-benedict-equation/

So it seems like you need to take in consideration the cardio/weight training you do in figuring out your BMR right?

Right now I havent started exericising so my final BMR would be BMRX1.2 but if I start to work out then it will be more like BMRX1.375. Does it really matter what I start out with though? Since we go down 200 a week I guess it only means that for the first 2 weeks I'd be higher if I go with the 1.375.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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medjaun

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Then what are you using to guide the amount of calories you eat or does it matter?
 

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Doesn't matter - I count protein grams (2g per lb target or current bodyweight depending on current goals) but nothing else.

Even if I did have the most accurate BMR counter in the world (which, much like jeans sizes I find, seem to be designed for that ideal bodytype that doesn't exist - example Joe weighs 150lbs at 8% bodyfat, Billie weighs 150lbs at 20% .. would the same BMR calculator work for both of these guys?) .. can I truly say I burned the same amount of calories today as I did yesterday?

Yesterday I went to the store twice because I forgot the peanut butter first time round. Today I only went once for the usual couple of pints of milk and a newspaper. I was slightly pissed off at forgetting the pb yesterday, so I walked quickly back the second time rather than my usual leisurely stroll.

Can I honestly say that I know exactly how many calories I burned yesterday and today and how much less/extra food I need to compensate? No .. hell, maybe today I was stressed for some reason and burned more/less calories worrying (possibly because the light of my life was doing some e-shopping again).

See where I'm going?

It'll drive you mad (because it's impossible to know how much you burn etc) and is totally unnecessary.

Losing bodyfat is a lengthy but otherwise simple process of eating and training much the same way as you would offseason, except that you'll cut out the fast food and indulgences, be meticulous about food seperation and cutting back carbs in the evening (or earlier), and do cardio - your choice of 45-60 minutes steady state on an empty stomach, or 20 minutes or less of HIIT (properly fuelled).
 

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What exactly is food separation? Keeping carbs and protein separate?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No, keeping fat and carbs seperate because of insulin issues. Eating fat and carbs together in high quantities lays down adipose tissue very effieciently.

Keep meals to pro/carb or pro/fat if you want the follow this scheme, many don't though, lots of people have the metabolism to get away with mixing macros and not put on fat.

Some foods will have trace carbs or fats in them which you can't get rid of, of course but don't worry too much about these. 10-15g of fat in a pro/carb meal or 10/15g of carbs in a pro/fat meal won't kill you, and having the odd mixed meal is fine too, depends on your body.
 

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What would constitute a pro/fat meal? What I mean is what are some examples of that I could try.

Also what I still don't understand is if what you eat doesn't put on fat then where do the calories go? I thought ultimatly you just need a calorie deficit at the end of the day to lose weight (with training to keep the muslce).
 
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