"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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inquisitor

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How are you doing, really? How's life going for you? Are you one of those who are still learning, still asking, and need more help and guidance, or are you one of those who are now helping other men achieve what you have achieved?

How is SoSuave, the forum, doing? Are men on here, who have shared their own issues, getting the help they need? How much has SoSuave forums changed in the past month? The past year? The past 10 years?

Are you happy with your life? What else do you need to feel confident in yourself? Have you done what you said you were going to do?

Just checking in.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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We are all here to learn.
Some of these lessons come at a potentially high cost, so it's worthwhile to hear from those who've already trod those paths..
 
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