"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How are some guys able to get multiple hot girls into their lives as adults?

drakeisfire

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Guys or groups of guys.

I mean got it when it was the case in high school or college due to it being a closed environment but what about life in adulthood?

Did these guys know those girls growing up or what?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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By speaking to women, living your life (career, friends, hobbies, general social life), not being a weirdo and keeping in contact with girls you know. Women will want to keep in contact with you when you are doing the aforementioned. They'll shoot you a message, you will also shoot women a message or call if they drop off the radar. Ultimately it's down to not living a solitary life, it's a personality thing, be outgoing and sociable. If you can't do that it will never happen for you.
 

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Just go outside, open your eyes, plenty of HOT women there and they r all looking for men.

All of them....

Every single one of them.

Just go out, don't be socially awkward, hv some backbone that doesn't bend like a jellyfish and learn to notice women's signals, they all do it even married grandmothers.
 
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