"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HOW and WHERE ? ANY SUGGESTIONS?

ALPHAROMEO

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how to you approach women?
ON THE STREET WITH A TOWNMAP "do u know where the station is?
AT THE GROCERY STORE i produce my shopping list ' have you heard of this cheese ? any good

ON THE STREET ' sorry to bother you madam i m done doing this quizz thinG do you know who s written those 2 songs ( u ve written them on a piece of paper

i m asking you caballeros if u can come up with more opEning situations like the ones i ve just described ?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SchoolBoy

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Alright I'll give some examples if you wanna use direct approach:

Mall: Hey, I wanted to come talk to you because I think you're cute.
Starbucks: Hey, I wanted to come talk to you because I think you're cute.
Club: Hey, I wanted to come talk to you because I think you're cute.
School/Class: Hey, I wanted to come talk to you because I think you're cute.

Yea? lol
 

keepitirie

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yaaa, schoolboy is right. day game=direct game. wont go into the details, but its not really about the opener either. once you open with you're cute, you are effin in. however, its the attraction part that is a little different, hence can be a little trickier.
 

Allurre

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Here's one you can run with.

When you see your girl, tap her on the shoulder and say...

"You know what?" (Create tension)

"You actually have a great energy about you. I just thought you should know that."

Say it like you mean it.

Then introduce yourself.

Never fails.
 
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