"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HOW and WHERE ? ANY SUGGESTIONS?

ALPHAROMEO

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how to you approach women?
ON THE STREET WITH A TOWNMAP "do u know where the station is?
AT THE GROCERY STORE i produce my shopping list ' have you heard of this cheese ? any good

ON THE STREET ' sorry to bother you madam i m done doing this quizz thinG do you know who s written those 2 songs ( u ve written them on a piece of paper

i m asking you caballeros if u can come up with more opEning situations like the ones i ve just described ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SchoolBoy

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Alright I'll give some examples if you wanna use direct approach:

Mall: Hey, I wanted to come talk to you because I think you're cute.
Starbucks: Hey, I wanted to come talk to you because I think you're cute.
Club: Hey, I wanted to come talk to you because I think you're cute.
School/Class: Hey, I wanted to come talk to you because I think you're cute.

Yea? lol
 

keepitirie

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yaaa, schoolboy is right. day game=direct game. wont go into the details, but its not really about the opener either. once you open with you're cute, you are effin in. however, its the attraction part that is a little different, hence can be a little trickier.
 

Allurre

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Here's one you can run with.

When you see your girl, tap her on the shoulder and say...

"You know what?" (Create tension)

"You actually have a great energy about you. I just thought you should know that."

Say it like you mean it.

Then introduce yourself.

Never fails.
 
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