"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How and by whom was the DJ bible compiled?

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thechosenone2190

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I'm just curious to know. How were posts selected to be in the bible originally back in its infancy? It would be good to know if the DJ bible was put together by just one person or by many experienced people.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PapiChulo

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Canada, eh?
It is a gift from above^^^^^^. It just appeared and there it was.
 
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comic_relief

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It was put together by many different people, I suggested an article or two to be placed in the DJB.

Generally it was put together by one person and then added by many people.

- comic_relief
 
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I was lurking in 2001, damn that bible was the sh1t back in those days, but I still was not able to believe there was actual good dating advice online, so I was trash DJ-wise till 2005, damn 4 years I could have actually been using that advice, I'd be a vet by now!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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