how am i doing

[nubian-knight]

i basically got this girl eating out of the palm of my hand but the way i did it was kind of cold. shell consistently msg me on msn and ill talk to her here and there, then basically tell her im busy and leave. shes given me her number but i havent called her since i dont really wana take this further then getting some play. i kind of ignore her if theres alot of ppl around. lol ive never been like this with a girl im usually alot nicer but this neglect seems to be getting her to want me more.


the thing im thinking of is we've been talking on and off for like 2 - 3 weeks now, chilled a couple times during this..... im wondering, have i waited too long to go for a kiss and get some action going? she still seems into me but i feel like i should have made a move earlier.....thoughts?

 

[Night Sky]

You're just fine, but if you seriously want something with thir girl, you should start being a little bit nice with her. (depending in what you want).

I've had similar situations like yours before, and I did well I guess.

Here's what I did:

Once she gets intrigued because you dont talk to her anymore or ignore her;
Talk to her. Try giving her the best time possible and then leave. BE SURE TO KEEP TRYING MAKING HER JEALOUS, by talking to other girls if possible.

Once you ask her out, go for it, just remember to have FUN.

Good luck

 

[nubian-knight]

thanks bro, i thought maybe by ignoring her shed perceive that i was too intimidated to make a move (definatly not the case)

ive always taken the old fashioned root of paying attention to the girl, being nice etc. so im unfamiliar with the pscychology of what im currrently doing lol

things are going well i suppose, im gona go for it at this party next week

 

[Night Sky]

haha, that's good,

remember to keep things real. don't be too fake because that could ruin you.

The whole being a tease, and macking her, is just to make her wonder about you, and attracting her, you shouldnt keep it for too long, and always be sure she knows you are just playing, AKA just fooling around with her

Try to be sweet and nice with her for times too, otherwise, unless the girl is a wh0re, she will think you're just some player dude and she will probably leave you.