"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"how about you" question for vronski or another SS expert

Siemer

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most of the times, when i ask girls have you ever , how did it feel , etc etc the come with a story but i also get the "how about you" question.

what is the best way to get out of this one and point it back to her. I say i cant really remember or that is so hard to describe
but are there better ways
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Vronski

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Improvise

Just answer and be vague.

Or if you felt that way in the past, describe the whole process of you meeting them and falling in love and having great time. But dont focus on the girl that you felt in love with. Do it for the sake of inserting more imbedded commands, but be careful not to be seen obsessed with some other girl.

You: ::Tell her incredible connection pattern::
Her: Wow, blah blah. Have YOU ever felt that way??? (now she's doing SS on you LOL)
You: Sometimes. Sometimes you just SEE THAT PERSON IN FRONT OF YOU, AND KNOW THAT YOU'RE A WONDERFUL MATCH. It's like YOU BEGIN TO CLICK instantly. Just like that(and snap fingers). Its like from the first moment you saw the person, YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH HIM. Its like you FEEL THAT YOU KNEW HIM FOR AGES, like a childhood friend, to whom you can OPEN UP AND TELL EVERYTHING. Your can SHARE YOUR every deepest desire and all your dirty little secrets. Its nice to TALK ABOUT ALL THIS STUFF, but when you meet a guy and SEE THAT HE'S LIKE THAT AND YOU FEEL SOME OTHER DESIRES TOWARDS HIM, it the BEST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN TO YOU. A lot of people THINK THAT BEING TRUE FRIENDS AND LOVERS IS THE GREATEST THING. You EXPERIENCE ALL THAT PASSION, LUST AND TOTAL DESIRE and GET AROUSED EVEN THINKING ABOUT HIM, you WANT TO SURRENDER YOURSELF TO HIM AND PLEASE YOUSELF AND PLEASE HIM. But you always FEEL THAT YOU'RE SAFE, because you're true friends. Beceause YOU TRUST HIM, AND HE TRUSTS YOU. And all you can do, is ENJOY EACH OTHER'S PRESENCE, FEEL HIS TOUCH ON YOUR SKIN.......................


Something like this. Theoretically, she can slap you and walk away, but this wont happen. She will have to risk the precious relationship with you, and its too big of a risk. She'll just giggle when you describe the naughty details. After all, you're not asking her to do anything. :D

Every question she ask you can be converted into a pattern. Your every response can steer the convo in the direction you want it to go and every response can contain imbedded commands. When you master this, she will be talking herself about her naughty secrets and steering the convo towards sex because SHE WANTS IT. Every piece of info she gives you can be used as a pivot for improvised pattern.

Good luck dude.
 
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