"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"how about you" question for vronski or another SS expert

Siemer

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most of the times, when i ask girls have you ever , how did it feel , etc etc the come with a story but i also get the "how about you" question.

what is the best way to get out of this one and point it back to her. I say i cant really remember or that is so hard to describe
but are there better ways
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Vronski

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Improvise

Just answer and be vague.

Or if you felt that way in the past, describe the whole process of you meeting them and falling in love and having great time. But dont focus on the girl that you felt in love with. Do it for the sake of inserting more imbedded commands, but be careful not to be seen obsessed with some other girl.

You: ::Tell her incredible connection pattern::
Her: Wow, blah blah. Have YOU ever felt that way??? (now she's doing SS on you LOL)
You: Sometimes. Sometimes you just SEE THAT PERSON IN FRONT OF YOU, AND KNOW THAT YOU'RE A WONDERFUL MATCH. It's like YOU BEGIN TO CLICK instantly. Just like that(and snap fingers). Its like from the first moment you saw the person, YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH HIM. Its like you FEEL THAT YOU KNEW HIM FOR AGES, like a childhood friend, to whom you can OPEN UP AND TELL EVERYTHING. Your can SHARE YOUR every deepest desire and all your dirty little secrets. Its nice to TALK ABOUT ALL THIS STUFF, but when you meet a guy and SEE THAT HE'S LIKE THAT AND YOU FEEL SOME OTHER DESIRES TOWARDS HIM, it the BEST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN TO YOU. A lot of people THINK THAT BEING TRUE FRIENDS AND LOVERS IS THE GREATEST THING. You EXPERIENCE ALL THAT PASSION, LUST AND TOTAL DESIRE and GET AROUSED EVEN THINKING ABOUT HIM, you WANT TO SURRENDER YOURSELF TO HIM AND PLEASE YOUSELF AND PLEASE HIM. But you always FEEL THAT YOU'RE SAFE, because you're true friends. Beceause YOU TRUST HIM, AND HE TRUSTS YOU. And all you can do, is ENJOY EACH OTHER'S PRESENCE, FEEL HIS TOUCH ON YOUR SKIN.......................


Something like this. Theoretically, she can slap you and walk away, but this wont happen. She will have to risk the precious relationship with you, and its too big of a risk. She'll just giggle when you describe the naughty details. After all, you're not asking her to do anything. :D

Every question she ask you can be converted into a pattern. Your every response can steer the convo in the direction you want it to go and every response can contain imbedded commands. When you master this, she will be talking herself about her naughty secrets and steering the convo towards sex because SHE WANTS IT. Every piece of info she gives you can be used as a pivot for improvised pattern.

Good luck dude.
 
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