"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How About This Porn Video ?

ALPHAROMEO

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HOW DO YOU PSYCH YOURSELF UP TO MAKE THAT FIRST TELEPHONE CALL ?

BY THE WAY THE PORN VIDEO THING WAS ONLY A PLOY TO GET YOUR ATTENTION AND SEE HOW MANY GUYS D RESPOND TO IT ( re SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY )

but the top question is still valid
how do you work up the courage to make this first call ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maxtro

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What's the lowest amount of rep somebody can get? Would the box change to a new color and give a really nasty message?
 

Radharc

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Social psychology should tell you that luring ppl in under false expectations will only piss them and will get you less positve responses that you would have otherwise.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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you just do it you lying poon. Dont think. Dont analyze just act.
 
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