"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I was wondering..

Atm i have a GirlFriend, and i am going to brake up with her.

- Have anyone got any experience with braking up at the PEAK of the relatonsship??

I mean, i am going to make her think; 'He is the best'' & 'he loves me very much', and then break Up...

What would her reaction bee? Would it be a great thing to do, or?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I say film and upload it. I love the look on people faces when they freak out.
 
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European-DJ said:
I was wondering..

Atm i have a GirlFriend, and i am going to brake up with her.

- Have anyone got any experience with braking up at the PEAK of the relatonsship??

I mean, i am going to make her think; 'He is the best'' & 'he loves me very much', and then break Up...

What would her reaction bee? Would it be a great thing to do, or?
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She's probably going to be very confused. Some people go bananas and she could do it too--especially if she loves you. Why are you breaking up with her?
 
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one question.... why the fk would u want to break up with her at the peak of her interest.. seriously what purpose would this serve other then make u seem like a total douche
 
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That i would keep her As a 'soulution' if i get needy.
- i want to break up, because my life is too short to keep a ltr, atleast until i reach 30
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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scribblec said:
one question.... why the fk would u want to break up with her at the peak of her interest.. seriously what purpose would this serve other then make u seem like a total douche
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Woman do this type of behavior all the time. They're completely selfish and have no regard for your feelings because they only care about their own. He's doing the same exact thing. He doesn't want to have a huge anchor around his ankle, he wants to be free. He's thinking for himself and wants to do what's in HIS best interest, not hers. If he breaks up with her during the peak of the relationship then oh well, sucks to be her. This is the mindset woman have, so why aren't you calling them douches?

-Scars
 
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Scars said:
Woman do this type of behavior all the time. They're completely selfish and have no regard for your feelings because they only care about their own. He's doing the same exact thing. He doesn't want to have a huge anchor around his ankle, he wants to be free. He's thinking for himself and wants to do what's in HIS best interest, not hers. If he breaks up with her during the peak of the relationship then oh well, sucks to be her. This is the mindset woman have, so why aren't you calling them douches?

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but hes only doing this to be spiteful which is very beta tbh
 
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There have been girls that were so nice to me, I couldn't ever imagine them being cruel or uncaring. Some of these girls I let down very gently and that was that. Other girls I kept seeing and even allowed myself to develop feelings for. Then at some point down the line (probably because I had started to care) they 'fell out of love'. When that happened they were absolutely ruthless. The moment the 'gina' ceased to tingle they just couldn't care less. Didn't matter that we had spent time together, had many fond memories, etc - the switch went off and that was that. They had absolutely NO concern for how I felt.

My only regret is that I hadn't dumped them at the peak of their interest.

Unless you're thinking of staying with a girl long term then hurt her before she hurts you. Then she'll be the one laying awake at night thinking about you instead of the other way around. If you ever want to go back to her then you'll have a damn good chance of doing so. If you wait til her feelings disappear you will have no chance.

I'm not saying you should deliberately sabotage good relationships. I'm saying that if you know you aren't going to stay with this girl then wait until she is most in love with you then just disappear. Go no contact, don't give any explanations whatsoever. Do as much psychological harm as you can. You would think she would hate you for it but this is a woman we are talking about. She'll just love you all the more.
 
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scribblec said:
but hes only doing this to be spiteful which is very beta tbh
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^^^^I agree. Two wrongs don't make a right^^^^^
 
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