"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I was wondering..

Atm i have a GirlFriend, and i am going to brake up with her.

- Have anyone got any experience with braking up at the PEAK of the relatonsship??

I mean, i am going to make her think; 'He is the best'' & 'he loves me very much', and then break Up...

What would her reaction bee? Would it be a great thing to do, or?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I say film and upload it. I love the look on people faces when they freak out.
 
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European-DJ said:
I was wondering..

Atm i have a GirlFriend, and i am going to brake up with her.

- Have anyone got any experience with braking up at the PEAK of the relatonsship??

I mean, i am going to make her think; 'He is the best'' & 'he loves me very much', and then break Up...

What would her reaction bee? Would it be a great thing to do, or?
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She's probably going to be very confused. Some people go bananas and she could do it too--especially if she loves you. Why are you breaking up with her?
 
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one question.... why the fk would u want to break up with her at the peak of her interest.. seriously what purpose would this serve other then make u seem like a total douche
 
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That i would keep her As a 'soulution' if i get needy.
- i want to break up, because my life is too short to keep a ltr, atleast until i reach 30
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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scribblec said:
one question.... why the fk would u want to break up with her at the peak of her interest.. seriously what purpose would this serve other then make u seem like a total douche
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Woman do this type of behavior all the time. They're completely selfish and have no regard for your feelings because they only care about their own. He's doing the same exact thing. He doesn't want to have a huge anchor around his ankle, he wants to be free. He's thinking for himself and wants to do what's in HIS best interest, not hers. If he breaks up with her during the peak of the relationship then oh well, sucks to be her. This is the mindset woman have, so why aren't you calling them douches?

-Scars
 
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Scars said:
Woman do this type of behavior all the time. They're completely selfish and have no regard for your feelings because they only care about their own. He's doing the same exact thing. He doesn't want to have a huge anchor around his ankle, he wants to be free. He's thinking for himself and wants to do what's in HIS best interest, not hers. If he breaks up with her during the peak of the relationship then oh well, sucks to be her. This is the mindset woman have, so why aren't you calling them douches?

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but hes only doing this to be spiteful which is very beta tbh
 
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There have been girls that were so nice to me, I couldn't ever imagine them being cruel or uncaring. Some of these girls I let down very gently and that was that. Other girls I kept seeing and even allowed myself to develop feelings for. Then at some point down the line (probably because I had started to care) they 'fell out of love'. When that happened they were absolutely ruthless. The moment the 'gina' ceased to tingle they just couldn't care less. Didn't matter that we had spent time together, had many fond memories, etc - the switch went off and that was that. They had absolutely NO concern for how I felt.

My only regret is that I hadn't dumped them at the peak of their interest.

Unless you're thinking of staying with a girl long term then hurt her before she hurts you. Then she'll be the one laying awake at night thinking about you instead of the other way around. If you ever want to go back to her then you'll have a damn good chance of doing so. If you wait til her feelings disappear you will have no chance.

I'm not saying you should deliberately sabotage good relationships. I'm saying that if you know you aren't going to stay with this girl then wait until she is most in love with you then just disappear. Go no contact, don't give any explanations whatsoever. Do as much psychological harm as you can. You would think she would hate you for it but this is a woman we are talking about. She'll just love you all the more.
 
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scribblec said:
but hes only doing this to be spiteful which is very beta tbh
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^^^^I agree. Two wrongs don't make a right^^^^^
 
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