"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how about post a something on how to make her fall for you

Philip.J.Fry

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just curiuous...
i have read many posts about self inprove, how to talk to girl. but i haven't seen many post on how to make a woman to fall in love, the magic, the chemistry..

yeah, i can be the greatest man i could be, but if i dont do some specific thing to make her fall for me there is no use.

can someone post something on how to make her fall for you and assume that you are already a great guy, have everything(job, confidence... everytning)

except the MAN still have no frikin clue on how to pick up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tomatoes

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To be honest if I could post you a set of words or a line that could make girls instantly fall in love with you....I would be a very rich man.

Fact of the matter is it cant be done. This site can help you improve yourself....increase your chances. Make you more attractive....but if you think its going to make a women fall in love with you.....your all wrong my friend. LOVE is an indervidual thing. Not universal. You have to build that one yourself....and no easy PU is going to make her instantly fall in love with you.
 

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Not to put you down or anything, but do we even do that here? I was under the impression that sosuave.com was about a few main things

1. How to cultivate the right attitude
2. How to approach women
3. How to deal with the early phases of the, for lack of a better word, relationship.
4. What to do when things get phsyical
 

Philip.J.Fry

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milrenkb said:
Not to put you down or anything, but do we even do that here? I was under the impression that sosuave.com was about a few main things

1. How to cultivate the right attitude
2. How to approach women
3. How to deal with the early phases of the, for lack of a better word, relationship.
4. What to do when things get phsyical
A woman would put on flowery skirt, red lips, show more skin to attract men. They know how to attract men.

And what about men? Do they even know what should be done to attract women? I dont think i have a clue, and that is why I ask sincerely for something that does just that. The man need to tool to do the job, u know what i am sayin?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ace of Flames

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The tool for the job? You're looking at it! Do we have to spell it out for you? Should they add a big banner on the front of the site saying "FIX YOUR GIRL PROBLEMS HERE!!"? How clear does it have to be for you?

You're asking for something that can't be said. There is no one way to make love happen. But we DO offer the next best thing. We can help you get started towards that opportunity to fall in love. You gotta be out there meeting and doing things with girls if you ever wanna marry one.

This site doesn't tell you how to get a girl to fall for you. It tells you how to set yourself up so you can have the chance for a girl to fall in love with you. And to get as many of those chances as possible.
 

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# If something has to be explained, it won't work. It will only work if it's so simple that everybody says it's obvious.

# at times when an approach doesn't gel, it's not that the approach is not right, but your thoughts are not clear or not thought through.

# And finally, don't start out by asking who has the right method in the DJ forum... Start out by asking yourself what is right. And you find that out by reading the posts here to dissenting, disagreeing opinions.
 

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Philip.J.Fry said:
A woman would put on flowery skirt, red lips, show more skin to attract men. They know how to attract men.

And what about men? Do they even know what should be done to attract women? I dont think i have a clue, and that is why I ask sincerely for something that does just that. The man need to tool to do the job, u know what i am sayin?
We understand your question but it seems that you're making a premature judgement before really reading all the threads.

A man becomes a man to attract women.
 
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