"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How about a Newbie board?

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Newbie Board would be dedicated to newbie questions, including all the frustrated relationship questions.

And from now on the DJ Discussion forum will be all about the game, field reports, techiques, theories, etc. more advance matters.

Note: The point of a newbie board is to clean up this board. Wouldn't it be nice to have all the useless threads on the newbie forum and all the real topics on improving our game on this forum?

Just a thought.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Btw since you guys are missing it, the point of a newbie board is to clean up this board. Wouldn't it be nice to have all the useless threads on the newbie forum and all the real topics on improving our game on this forum?
 
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Originally posted by Swoop
Btw since you guys are missing it, the point of a newbie board is to clean up this board. Wouldn't it be nice to have all the useless threads on the newbie forum and all the real topics on improving our game on this forum?
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Perfect leave this board for people wanting to improve their game and make a board for newbies to ask newbie questions.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I like the idea. Mods can decide what they think is "newbie" and what isn't, and I think newbies will have an easier time learning stuff. Plus, there won't be as much garbage to sift through to read the stuff that's actually worth reading.
 
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I don't disagree with the idea, yet, this forum already is mostly newbies who give a lot of advice, yet don't have the skills or experience, who are the first one to point out how certain hot actress is not their type, or how their standards are too high, etc.,

The Mature Man Forum was supposed to be exactly what the title implies, yet we have very immature men who have refused to grow up, water it down.

Have you seen the recent posts by that guy obssessed with his ex roomate? That is hardly Mature Man Forum material.
 
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Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Have you seen the recent posts by that guy obssessed with his ex roomate? That is hardly Mature Man Forum material.
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I have a suspicion (sp) that he is trolling, cause NOONE is that ****ing r*tarded in real life.

Yeah, a n00b board sounds like a great idea, but alas, as with other great ideas it's not going to happen.

We need to stage a revolt and take over this site!!!!
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Whats better than newbs helping noobies...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Whats better than newbs helping noobies...
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It's not noobs helping noobs. Experienced DJ who really wants to help will go address their questions.
 
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I don't know why eveybody rags on newbies all the time. I've seen some newbies post gold and some "masters" post crap. It's really a case by case situation.
 
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Originally posted by PRMoon
I don't know why eveybody rags on newbies all the time. I've seen some newbies post gold and some "masters" post crap. It's really a case by case situation.
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I am refering to newbie topics/ threads not the newbies themselves. Those who are newbie can still post in the DJ Forum but only things related to the game, techniques, fieldreports, etc.

It's all about keeping the DJ Forum with useful discussion on improving game and the other personal/relationship/self-sabotage type thread in the newbie section so guys who are only serious about the game can avoid the rest that isn't important.

I think this is a great idea to solve our problem, but if anyone has better one, let's hear it.
 
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Sounds like a good idea.

Of course it would mean the more experienced guys having permission to post in the newbie forum so we dont see a newbie-giving-newbie-answers- situation.

And then, of course the newbies, should be allowed to read (but not post) in the DJ forum so they learn something.

The only difficult part is how to separate the DJ's from the newbies. ...and if the forum even got the moderating capacity for such a work.
 
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