"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How about a new age DJ Bible

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Eternal

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Ok, it's obvious now that Nicholas does not update the DJ Bible anymore. How about a new age sticky-post one, like The Matrix made in the HS board, except it encompasses every board?
While Nich does not update the bible, he HAS left it to a few people to update when needed.

Also, keep an eye out for Matrix's bible to get updated/revamped soon.
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
I thought nobody else took his offer to update it?
I know a few people did, I just don't know who all took it.
 

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Some people have been given the maintenance password to the bible and can update it any time they like. I can add/remove articles in mere seconds but I don't see any quality / "better" articles around at the moment that justify the deletion of an old one. I do not want to make it bigger (although moderators are free to do practically anything with it).

I don't update the structure any more - hence why the "last updated" date will stay the same even though articles get added or deleted.

Feel free to volunteer in DJB maintenance.

Nick
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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