"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How about a date/hanging out with 2 girls at once? Good Or bad
- Thread starter Wolfjay
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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I have been double-header-ing almost every weekend the last few months. But you have to pick one, and let the other one go. Keep the dates apart from one another. They are not to converse. Give a reasonable excuse (and be polite) as to why you have to cut the date short to the one you let go to keep the door open for future communication. I usually go with "Hey, I'm sorry but I have to cut this date short. You are real cute, and I def would like to see you again."