How A Natural Works

[Latinoman]

It is all fun and games to hear field reports from "Don Juans" but the truth is the people we can learn the most from are the naturals

But you later said that he was not good at holding a relationship. So...he cannot possibly be a Don Juan. ANYONE can bs his way into a quick sexual adventure. Takes more than that to hold a relationship.

Note: I don't know if I believe or not the story. Personally, that's not the point.

 

[xblitz44x]

It seems strange to me that any hot babe would fall for a guy who was scrawny and short.

I myself workout at the gym three times a week, I am now very powerfully built and hot babes always tell me that they are attracted to me because I look like I am strong.

It's not your muscles that 'attract' them. It is the dominance that SOME 'hot babes' perceive about those muscles. There are pleanty of girls who's true ideal man is not muscular (ie. Justin Timberlake, Andy Garcia, Tommy Lee). Some perceive 'muscles' as 'douchebag who is full of himself and who can't form a complete sentence'. Beauty truly is in the eyes of the beholder.

And I also want to make the point that just because you think a girl is hot, doesn't mean she automatically likes a certain type of guy. Ex. Most hot girls like muscles, or most hot girls like guys in bands. Your interpretation of her being physically attractive does not shape what she is attracted to.

 

[LouBrication]

he simply invited her to sit next to him. What he did after this was just simply NOT fvck things up.

screwing up can be VERY easy to do... It does take some skills NOT to screw up... and as for everyone calling her a slut, well a lot of girls have a some sluttiness in them, even some of the innocent looking ones have a slutty side... and it also takes skills to bring out the freak in a chick...

 

[vorbis]

Completely agree, there are a hundred and one ways to **** it up.the guy in this story displayed some really tight game

screwing up can be VERY easy to do... It does take some skills NOT to screw up... and as for everyone calling her a slut, well a lot of girls have a some sluttiness in them, even some of the innocent looking ones have a slutty side... and it also takes skills to bring out the freak in a chick...

 

[KoalaKing]

It's not your muscles that 'attract' them. It is the dominance that SOME 'hot babes' perceive about those muscles. There are pleanty of girls who's true ideal man is not muscular (ie. Justin Timberlake, Andy Garcia, Tommy Lee). Some perceive 'muscles' as 'douchebag who is full of himself and who can't form a complete sentence'. Beauty truly is in the eyes of the beholder.

And I also want to make the point that just because you think a girl is hot, doesn't mean she automatically likes a certain type of guy. Ex. Most hot girls like muscles, or most hot girls like guys in bands. Your interpretation of her being physically attractive does not shape what she is attracted to.

I have never been able to understand why so many hot babes are attracted to guys like, Tommy Lee, Rod Stewart, 50 Cent, etc, as I feel that they are full of themselves, Justin Timberlake, is a hunk I guess in a similar way to, Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, Mel Gibson, etc, so I can understand why a lot of hot babes would be attracted to him, but, Andy Garcia, is one that I don't know anything about so I can't comment on him.

All I know is that I have become a lot more confident since I have become more muscular and strong looking, also I began studying at the age of 35 and this has also built up my confidence as I now at 38 have various high academic qualifications that I never had three years ago.

I think that the hot babes prefer the muscular strong looking types of guys if they come accross as being humble and smile a lot etc.

If I was scrawny I wouldn't have the confidence to win over the hottest babes, my personality is more on the quiet reserved side so the fact that I now look strong has helped me a lot.

I have the ability to read the body language of the hot babes so I know straight away if they are attracted to me or not, which is a huge benefit to me.

Hot Babes are attracted to many different things in men, which is why it is difficult for most guys to approach a hot babe, as some will like them and others won't, no matter who the guy is.

Most guys will be attracted to a hot babe who has a decent job, so it is easier for them to be confident around the guys as some babes will be the desire of just about every guy, but for guys it is different.

If you can learn to accept the fact that lots of hot babes won't desire to be with you then you can handle the rejection, as you know that if only one in every one hundred hot babes wants to be with you, that you will soon find another one if you are prepared to keep on sarging through them.

It is an interesting post. :yes:

 

[tmpgstx]

It is interesting. I too attract them and can tell right away because it's so dam obvious ..the constant glancing, having her ass facing you and completely turning around to see if you're looking at her (or her ass).

I'm big and ripped and very strong looking also ..really into being the best i can be at everything. Great job, own business etc.

I'm reserved also, but am friendly, keeps them coming around but is up to me to make the move in asking them out.

 

[Mission]

There are two ignorant comments I have seen in this thread, the first being that a scrawny short kid could not possibly attract a hot babe, and also that this story is unbelievable. I was there, sitting beside him when it happened, I watched this go down and anyone who has read any of my other posts knows I am reliable and do not make stories up.
You know what? I am a hot guy, get it, I go to clubs and girls walk past me and eye **** me all day long, girls get nervous when I approach them, everytime I go out my friends tell me about 3 or 4 girls they talked to that told them I was hot, but guess what I am on this board looking for advice, why? Because my game is far from perfect, I grew up in a very conservative environment and now I have to break away from that mindset. My friend however, is a true man, he is a tough kid, stands strong for what he believes in, and always has a plan for what to do. He knows how to talk to girls to get them in bed, and I have never heard of a hot girl regretting hooking up with him. So stop passing your judgement, the story I told happened in real life while I sat beside him, the guy did a great job of being confident and a little bit bold with the girl. I am tired of hearing your *****ing because you are muscular and don't get any, don't go for supposedly "slutty" girls and don't get any, or because you are bold enough to try this stuff on your own.
I just get more and more frustrated with the responses to this post, I posted this to show how a guy who has never been exposed to sosuave.com, a guy who went to a private school with 40 kids to a grade, and a guy who is honarable and trustworthy can get a girl when he wants to. He is a great guy, so stop complaining because you are a self proclaimed genius with women, you are on sosuave.com, here is news, you don't know shyt about girls and as long as you are on this site you will not. Yeah I might be here, I know a thing or two, but until I quit visiting this site I am no Don Juan. Get over yourselves.

--Mission

 

[xblitz44x]

Mission take it easy brother. Who cares if people believe you or not? You know it happened and you're not obligated to prove it to anybody. People are going to debate your thread; that's the point of starting it to begin with. You can't take such offense to everything. Some people aren't trying to be ignorant, they genuinely don't know any better.

I hope you weren't referring to my posts when you said that we should 'stop complaining' or whatever. Perhaps part of your problems with women can be rooted to the fact that you care so much about what people in general have to say about you.

 

[xblitz44x]

I have never been able to understand why so many hot babes are attracted to guys like, Tommy Lee, Rod Stewart, 50 Cent, etc, as I feel that they are full of themselves

I think that the hot babes prefer the muscular strong looking types of guys if they come accross as being humble and smile a lot etc.

If I was scrawny I wouldn't have the confidence to win over the hottest babes, my personality is more on the quiet reserved side so the fact that I now look strong has helped me a lot.

I think you're answering your own question here. Again, for you it's not the muscles that 'get women'. The fact that you have muscles probably empowers you and gives you the self-assurance to go out there and make some moves. That reassurance and, as you call it "confidence", gets interpreted by some (or many) women as that natural male dominance that they are compelled towards. It was never the physical presence of the muscles themselves, but rather that perceived dominance that is radiated. And once again, not all women are going to perceive your muscles (or even your confidence) as quality maleness. Some may think "douchebag" some may think "meathead"

"All I know is that I have become a lot more confident since I have become more muscular and strong looking, also I began studying at the age of 35 and this has also built up my confidence as I now at 38 have various high academic qualifications that I never had three years ago."

True self confidence isn't relying on muscles, or academic qualifications. True confidence is saying that if you were to get into a car accident and lose those muscles, would you still be confident in who YOU are? Would you still be able to see that you're a quality guy when it comes down to going deeper than surface level pecs and abs? If the honest answer is "no", then your confidence lies in your muscles and not in yourself.

 

[Mission]

Oh no man I don't care what people think about me. Just a couple things irritated me in this post because I am talking about my best friend here and for example Koala King thinks that he couldn't possibly be so successful if he is scrawny and small. I hoped we could have a discussion about why it is what my buddy did worked so well, not to make excuses such as "she is obviously a slut" to discount him.
My whole point was, this is a story from a guy who gets alot of different girls and has lots of techniques, I hoped we all could learn something from it.

--Mission