How A Natural Works

[Mission]

It is all fun and games to hear field reports from "Don Juans" but the truth is the people we can learn the most from are the naturals

Recently I went to go see The Fast and the Furious Tokyo Drift with a large group of friends, I was sitting beside one of my best friends who is awesome with girls, not at the dating part but at the simply getting sex. It always amazes me how quickly he can get a girl to want him, and lets consider that he is short and scrawny, definatly not your typical "hot" guy.

To make a long story short he was goofying off with one of the girls in our groups cell phones (putting it down his pants etc), in doing this he accidently kicked the seat in front of him and the girl sitting there turned around. Well she turned out to be a hottie so my friend jumped right on this opportunity. The way this played out was brilliant, he introduced himself to this girl and after a little observation and small talk says "hey are the people you with a couple?" to which she says "yeah they are" so my friend immeadiatly jumps "thats awkward, you can come sit up here with me if you want". The girl literally leapt out of her seat to come sit up with our group.

This is where his skill blows my mind, the kid basically knows all our tricks but allows it to flow so naturally its amazing. All I know is at the end of the movie he was fingering this girl (she was wearing a skirt) and the day after this he had sex with her. So of course I had to pick his brain about what had just happened.

It all started with him "testing the water" essentially he did this by asking her what she was into, to this she said "i am a skiier" to this my friend said "wow i just popped a boner", a fairly bold statement, but as he said it is all part of testing the water, if she reacts badly and moves away well too bad, but she didn't react badly, she says "haha really? most people don't think it is that hot". Now my friend is a master of sexual allusion so as he fluffed this girl he would occasionally throw in sexual jokes, but here comes what I consider to be the best move he made all night. This exemplifies the importance of kino, he told me "girls are just as horny as guys as you know, all you need to do is trick them into thinking they are in control by teasing them a little bit" so here is what he does, everytime he leans over to talk to her he puts his hand on her leg, but the trick is he places his hand closer to her crotch everytime and when he removes his hand he slides his hand inside her leg a bit and up the leg. This motion basically is arousing her, and when he put his hand close enough she took his hand and put it right on her ****, she thinks she is in control but honestly my friend simply used ****y/funny, kino, and light fluff talk to get this girl. Of course he leaves the theatre with her number and she has been non-stop text messaging him sexual texts ever since.

What can we all learn from this interaction:

• Forget about your ego, be a little bold with girls and test the waters to qualify them.
• Use kino to arouse the girl sexually
• Learn to use a combination of bold and subtle sexual allusion
• Be natural, don't just be a don juan with girls, be the same way around everyone

 

[Chosen1]

Hey good tips sometimes i'm to scared to start kino or i don't think to do it but it is very very very very important start to touch a girl as soon as you can a hug is really good if you shake hands hold them for a second look her in the eyes and comment on something about her

 

[speed dawg]

Good stuff.....Post some more of his stories....

And, if there is any, post some of his failures so we can see how he handled it....

 

[vp171s]

A little off-topic but, it's amazing how telling a story of a "friend's" skills suddenly gives it more credebility. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying I don't believe him, I'm just saying.

Think about it. Think how your reaction would be different had you read his post and everywhere instead of "my friend" it said "I".

Neat eh...

 

[BacardiGuy]

My stepbrother is a natural DJ like that too. He works some serious magic. On a vacation last summer I was down at the pools talking to these other girls, he comes down from the bar letting me know he's going back to a different hotel with the TWO girls he had picked up at the bar.

 

[DonJuanByNature]

In Summary

What can we all learn from this interaction

"Test The Waters" i.e. thats the key!!!!! i.e. you have to push the envelope to see how far you can go...

(Asking her to come and sit next to him was AMAZING!!!! by the way)

 

[Valdez]

Yup, the "that must be awkward, come over and sit next to me line" was genius. Thats something I plan on using if the right situation comes across.

 

[xblitz44x]

It all comes down to the intentions of both people. If her intentions were to not let a stranger jam his dirty fingers up her snatch, then he certainly would not have been able to get his fingers smelly regardless of what 'skills' we might think he posseses.

It might be a hard pill for people to swallow but she wanted him from the second she turned around and saw him. Otherwise she wouldn't have dove over the seats to be next to him. He didn't do anything magical or even skillful for that matter; he simply invited her to sit next to him. What he did after this was just simply NOT fvck things up.

In a case where he just wants some quick action, he did the right thing by trying to filter out the goodie-goodies (and the women with any type of morals). He got lucky in that the first girl he put through the filter was both a) willing to get down and dirty QUICK, and b) into him enough to do it with him.

Aside from the slut test and the ability to not screw things up, his skills extended no further than being bold enough to make a move.

 

[Arsinel]

But if I'm doing what you're telling me to do, it's not natural, is it?

P.S. What a sl.u.t. Idiot was jammin his fingers in her ghonorrea-infested p.u.ssy.

 

[Bonhomme]

All these "what a s l u t " comments make it easy to understand why gals so often shut down when they really want to have it.

Such jealousy ... I say props to the gal... as well as him.

 

[Mission]

You guys all call this girl a slut etc, sounds like a bit of jealousy to me. He never would have been fingering her if he hadn't made the right moves, what you think because she "wanted him" she was just going to take his hand and shove it down her pants? NO! I have met plenty of girls who have wanted me from the moment they met me, but then they admit that there was something in my personality that turned them off in a sexual way, even though we maintained being friends. Such things include, I met a girl who instantly thought I was hot, but I had dated a girl that she hates, so that was a turnoff for her.

Don't for a second discount how important it is to know how to talk to girls to get what you want, the wrong words can easily turn off a girl. Thats why it is important to get her talking about herself, and quickly learn what things might be taboo to talk about, qualify qualify.

--Mission

 

[LouBrication]

this is great stuff... more please... ^_^

 

[tmpgstx]

Any girl that would let a guy finger her in a movie theater that she just met is a slvt. You can try and sugar-coat it, but this is what she is. She is the type that would cheat on a guy in a heartbeat. It's no surprise she was wearing a skirt, probably no underwear too ..lol.

Not that's it bad, if he like wanted Herpes or something ..lol. It just wreaks of no standards.

He can probably tell the easy types, but who can't? Just look at how they dress. You just get sexual with these types and they let you go.

Dam ..nice post Xblitz ..way to put it!

Let's see him get a quality girl talking like that and pulling that BS. I bet it blows up in his face.

 

[xblitz44x]

You guys all call this girl a slut etc, sounds like a bit of jealousy to me.

--Mission

Whether anybody thinks this girl is a slut is irrelevant. According to your standards, she might not be a slut but when put up against tmpgstx's scale she may in fact be labeled a 'slut' in his book. Whether she is or isn't is irrelevant. What is relevant is that she got fingered by a guy that she couldn't have talked to more than 15 minutes, therefore certainly does not KNOW (how much conversation can you really have during a movie?), and let him stick his dirty fingers inside of her. Now, even if she had known him for a month, there is a certain element of hygiene that comes into play here. His fingers have been all over the seats, money to pay for tickets, probably the bathroom urinal, and who knows what else...and she let him jam those filth sticks inside of her without knowing. Maybe it's not slutty but it certainly doesn't say a lot about her self-worth if she's willing to throw caution to the wind in the name of a quick orgasm.

However, I do also agree with what Bonhomme said:

"All these "what a s l u t " comments make it easy to understand why gals so often shut down when they really want to have it."

This is also true. But I still have to revert back to the simple fact that she's asking for infection anybody who is willing to risk a serious genital infection in the name of an orgasm in the middle of a movie theatre with a guy she knows virtually nothing about. If she met him during the movie, sat with him, had a bite to eat after dinner, went home with him and got romanced then I'd give her a high-five but from the story that was told, she basically dove over the theatre seats onto his erect fingers.


"He never would have been fingering her if he hadn't made the right moves, what you think because she "wanted him" she was just going to take his hand and shove it down her pants? NO! I have met plenty of girls who have wanted me from the moment they met me, but then they admit that there was something in my personality that turned them off in a sexual way" -Mission

The only "right moves" that he made was not making the wrong ones, which he almost did with the boner comment. You answered your own question right there, whatever he did just happened to not turn her off in a sexual way. But he didn't have to play any of his mind games or "dance up the leg" games because she dove over the fvcking seats at him. Girls who don't want a certain guy bad don't dive over seats at a random guy to see if he is an attractive guy. This girl already knew and all he did was make the moves. The 'skills' were all just mental masturbation going on in his own head to try to convince himself that he's got game. He doesn't even need game in a situation like this.

 

[Arsinel]

Lol, you know I thought your name said xzibit til I looked closer.

 

[Mission]

The only "right moves" that he made was not making the wrong ones, which he almost did with the boner comment. You answered your own question right there, whatever he did just happened to not turn her off in a sexual way. But he didn't have to play any of his mind games or "dance up the leg" games because she dove over the fvcking seats at him. Girls who don't want a certain guy bad don't dive over seats at a random guy to see if he is an attractive guy. This girl already knew and all he did was make the moves. The 'skills' were all just mental masturbation going on in his own head to try to convince himself that he's got game. He doesn't even need game in a situation like this.

The funny thing is, is that my friend pulls girls all the time, with the same tactics, the same stupid sexual jokes, the same charm etc. The comment about "lets see him get a quality girl" is completly irrelevant, alot of the girls he has gotten with are in fact quality girls, I would know because I have known the girls my whole life. You can all sit here and criticize it, but I don't see anyone else posting stories about themselves getting with a girl like that, regardless of whether she might be a slut or not.

Saying she is a slut is just a way of disqualifying the guy who hooked up with her to make yourself look like you have more value, but honestly we all know that any of you would have jumped on that opportunity if it were you.

--Mission

 

[xblitz44x]

I never said "lets see him get a quality girl". Quality is always relative. What I said was that the result of his night at the movies had more to do with:

a) The girl's initial attraction towards him, thus jumping over a seat to be near him.

b) Him NOT screwing things up by saying something that might turn her off.

c) Her willingness to spread her legs in the middle of a crowded movie theatre.

It wasn't his amazing charm or genius wit that got her to behave out of character. She knew what she was willing to do, found a guy that she wanted to get off from, and he didn't screw things up. It really is that simple...for everybody.

I'm not doging the guy because he had the balls to make a move and didn't turn her off in the meantime, but I'm also not going to call the guy a romantical genius because what he did, regardless of what he (and you) might believe, was nothing more than two people being on the same page as far as their intentions, and nobody throwing a wrench in the dynamic to derail it.

And as long as he screens for girls who enjoy partaking in this sort of thing, he will only land those girls.

 

[sexysuave]

hey great stuff. I totally believe it. I have done movie pick ups back in Cali about 6 or 7 years ago. It just happened naturally really, I'd go with my buddies, and if I saw some girls walking by, I would just invite them to come sit with us. Then I would get my flirt on. I have ended up making out with girls, though admittedly, I havent' fingered them on this first occasion :rock: . One time I ended up making out with the girl that was sitting next to me, but got both her and her friends' number. You really do have to be aloof and have no shyness about this whatsoever.

Anyways, great story, great lines. If you have more, I would love to hear it. Great stuff. Pick your friends brain a bit more, ask him for more tactics and report back .

 

[Mission]

I never said "lets see him get a quality girl". Quality is always relative. What I said was that the result of his night at the movies had more to do with:

a) The girl's initial attraction towards him, thus jumping over a seat to be near him.

b) Him NOT screwing things up by saying something that might turn her off.

c) Her willingness to spread her legs in the middle of a crowded movie theatre.

It wasn't his amazing charm or genius wit that got her to behave out of character. She knew what she was willing to do, found a guy that she wanted to get off from, and he didn't screw things up. It really is that simple...for everybody.

I'm not doging the guy because he had the balls to make a move and didn't turn her off in the meantime, but I'm also not going to call the guy a romantical genius because what he did, regardless of what he (and you) might believe, was nothing more than two people being on the same page as far as their intentions, and nobody throwing a wrench in the dynamic to derail it.

And as long as he screens for girls who enjoy partaking in this sort of thing, he will only land those girls.

Yeah I hear what your saying. I believe I forgot to mention that when I was picking his brain afterwards he mentioned the same thing you said about "being on the same page" except he reffered to it as knowing your target. He has never been great at relationships, but he does know how to get what he wants, so it might be hard for you guys to understand why I consider him a natural, its because I have seen him do alot of things with all sorts of different girls.
As far as this situation is concerned, yeah there was luck in that she was horny, but I think we can all give him credit for being so bold, and lets not forget this girl is still calling him. It's all in fun, thought it was a good story to share.

--Mission

 

[KoalaKing]

It seems strange to me that any hot babe would fall for a guy who was scrawny and short.

I myself workout at the gym three times a week, I am now very powerfully built and hot babes always tell me that they are attracted to me because I look like I am strong.

I was never scrawny but I was just average in build before I started pushing weights and no hot babes ever came near me.

I think that there are many different ways of which guys allure the hot babes and mine are a lot different to your friends.

I used my bodybuilding, along with positive affirmations, my academic and athletic successes and my reasonable facial looks to attract the hot babes to me.

I would never sarge if I was at a movie cinema or any other place with a lot of male friends around, nor would I ask a hot babe to sit next to me in that type of situation.

I like to be alone when I sarge and my success comes from my being able to read the hot babes body language, which I can tell straight away if that particular hot babe is attracted to me or not.

I have done everything in my own power to be presented as the type of guy that most hot babes would desire to be with.

It is my beleif that if only one in every one hundred hot babes is attracted to me then I will always have a gorgeous girl in my life.

It is important to stress that just like their are many different ways to skin a cat, their are many different techniques to allure the hottest babes.