"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How a girls opinion may raise interest in others about you???

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Could this be?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=206931

Reading this thread really shed some light.

As you guy's may know. I go to the gym(Bodybuild)

Recently this Philippine chick started working there at the front desk. It was obvious she liked me the first time she saw, always smiles at me, is kind of flirty too.

I was even once waiting for my dad to come pick me up and she saw I was waiting for someone and she offered me a ride home. But my dad was on the way so I didn't accept. Etc. Anyhow forget all of that. SMH.

The point is this chick went ahead and obviously told her co-workers about me that she ''thought I was cute'' and how do I know that? It's because of the way the other chicks that work there even of the personals trainers started looking at me/checking me out IT WAS soo fvcken hilarious. I even over heard her once saying to one of the girls that works with her when I was coming in the front door ''hey look its that cute guy i was talking to you about''.. so yeah chick must have spread the word around and man this is powerful once a girl tells her girls about you and watt she thinks of you its like all OFF them start FLOCKING you even if they never notice you existed. :crackup: that sh!t is crazy.

Now I have always being really insecure. Just wanted to get opinion from you guy's witch hair style looks best.

I think I am at least a 6? :(

Shorter hair.
http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/96/r5nc.jpg/

Longer hair.
http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/844/lfjf.jpg/
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jair213 said:
Could this be?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=206931

Reading this thread really shed some light.

As you guy's may know. I go to the gym(Bodybuild)

Recently this Philippine chick started working there at the front desk. It was obvious she liked me the first time she saw, always smiles at me, is kind of flirty too.

I was even once waiting for my dad to come pick me up and she saw I was waiting for someone and she offered me a ride home. But my dad was on the way so I didn't accept. Etc. Anyhow forget all of that. SMH.

The point is this chick went ahead and obviously told her co-workers about me that she ''thought I was cute'' and how do I know that? It's because of the way the other chicks that work there even of the personals trainers started looking at me/checking me out IT WAS soo fvcken hilarious. I even over heard her once saying to one of the girls that works with her when I was coming in the front door ''hey look its that cute guy i was talking to you about''.. so yeah chick must have spread the word around and man this is powerful once a girl tells her girls about you and watt she thinks of you its like all OFF them start FLOCKING you even if they never notice you existed. :crackup: that sh!t is crazy.

Now I have always being really insecure. Just wanted to get opinion from you guy's witch hair style looks best.

I think I am at least a 6? :(

Shorter hair.
http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/96/r5nc.jpg/

Longer hair.
http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/844/lfjf.jpg/

The power of pre-selection. And/or social status.

I think your hair matters less than how you would dress/how your style would compliment it. Can't give any further advice than that since I don't know what kinda person you are. But you don't seem like a ugly dude, nope.
 

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kraytkiller said:
The power of pre-selection. And/or social status.

I think your hair matters less than how you would dress/how your style would compliment it. Can't give any further advice than that since I don't know what kinda person you are. But you don't seem like a ugly dude, nope.
Well I have always being an introvert since I was a young teen, and I know that doesn't help one bit. Lol.

I really don't talk much at all.
 

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Jair213 said:
Well I have always being an introvert since I was a young teen, and I know that doesn't help one bit. Lol.

I really don't talk much at all.
What I meant was more of the kind of style you think works for you. Like classy, thug, prep or whatever people call different styles these days.

Personally I can see you in a casual classy type of clothing with your longer hair. By that I mean button up shirt, jeans, normal shoes.
 

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kraytkiller said:
What I meant was more of the kind of style you think works for you. Like classy, thug, prep or whatever people call different styles these days.

Personally I can see you in a casual classy type of clothing with your longer hair. By that I mean button up shirt, jeans, normal shoes.
Well my style is all over the place. I grew up skating, played street basketball, huge fan of michael jordan and also love rock/metal. One day I would be dressed up with a skater look/rock style on some van's type stuff, the next day i'd be rocking some Jordans/baller status, and then suddently i would dress classy casual like you stated. But yeah I see watt you mean. I would look into it more.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The power of pre-selection. And/or social status.
YUP! This is why it's harder to game a "stranger" than someone in your social circle. One girl that I was dating initially had no interest in me (or maybe she played hard to get - whatever) but when I was giving attention to her friends - our mutual friends - she suddenly became interested. Either that or she didn't want to let someone else get me.
 

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Uncharted said:
YUP! This is why it's harder to game a "stranger" than someone in your social circle. One girl that I was dating initially had no interest in me (or maybe she played hard to get - whatever) but when I was giving attention to her friends - our mutual friends - she suddenly became interested. Either that or she didn't want to let someone else get me.
did you end up smashing it atleast?
 
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