I think the "talk around her" tactic works because of social proof, not because of the "any other shmuck would be talking me up right now." If your target sees that her friend likes you, it will raise her desire for you. I think that contributes more than the challenge aspect, although they both probably contribute. Anyways, sweet post, Im just trying to add another perspective.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
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