"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How a DJ must act when he is wrong?

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Don Juan
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Hi everybody, just wondering how we should act when we cheat, lie or talk sh*t about a girl and she finds out?
I know its better not to make those things, but if it happens, whats the best way we should act?
Thank you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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slaog

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Apologise but don't plead for forgiveness or anything like that. Accept that you were wrong.

Not making a big deal out of it also helps, people make mistakes. It should not effect you though.. you're not looking for her to like you because you're a DJ and so you should not be worried about losing the girl. ;)
 

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Honor is one of the core values that good men hold themselves to. No need to be apologetic or feminine, but if you're caught then the smart thing to do is to admit to your faults. This not only looks better upon you, but helps you learn from your mistakes.
 
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