"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How 2 Score (sex) On The Net

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Internet dating exploded in the last half decade, whatever you are into there's a dating site. As of 2007 there are over 1300 different dating sites, and counting. In the pick-up community, Net dating lacks instant feedback, is viewed as informal,time consuming, is somewhat unreliable, counter-productive, and does virtually nothing to build confidence. It's flaws are also it's lure.

Lets be honest here, tons of people troll for sex on the net, that's a fact. If you are a man just looking for sex and advertise that fact, then you will encounter some resistance. Don't believe me, just pick a dating site and start reading female profiles. Time and time again you will see stuff like "not looking for sex, not into one night stands, please move on if you are, not seeking a good time but a friend, looking for long term, players need not apply!!!". Women will often rule you out if you have anything openly suggesting sex in your profile/emails (seeking fun times, casual dating, nothing serious, adventurous, thrill seeker, recently divorced, etc). That's what they say, but in reality it can be quite the opposite......if you know how.

Women crave sex just as much as men do, they just use a little more tact and are not as open about it. The key to getting a one night stand is be subtle, go slow, hint, be suggestive, build the tension. If you boast, brag, toot your own horn, express how horny you are right off the bat in an email, profile, over the phone, first 5 minutes into the date you might as well say hello to Rosey Palms. Have some tact if you want her in the sack, be non-sexual to get sex. Sounds counter-intuitive but it often is very true.
Let's take a look at the kinds of women that are in fact up for instant booty calls on the net. They fall into 3 distinct categories:

1) JADED, REJECTED, MESSED UP,HORNY NYPHO,LOW SELF ESTEEM,LONELY, ECCENTRIC,QUIRKY, WEIRD,DEPRESSED,ETC. You can tell by the pictures they upload (look at how sexy I am photo's which are usually revealing), their profile descriptions usually state specific details they are seeking, when they are online (late at night) and how often.

2) FAT CHICS, CHEATING WIVES: women with a few extra pounds on average are always more sexual than those slim sisters. Desperate housewives that are lonely and at their sexual peek (30-50's), are abundant in their desires.

3) BI-SEXUAL, BI-CURIOUS, LESBIAN: they swing both ways/curious and the net makes it all too easy to quench their thirst for explorations.

I have met chics on various web-sites all who claimed they were not into one niters or not seeking sex right away, butt in the end I got 'em naked within the first hour. They just had to be seduced a little slower. I leaded them right where they wanted to go and acted like it was their idea.


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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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If you want sex from the internet:
go download some porn - no commitment, no rejection or regrets and it's there whenever you need it.
 

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I think i was referring to REAL LIVE GIRLS. I AM not advocating relying strictly on NET dating........I said its one othe the lowest forms of meeting women as far as confidence boosting goes.

Cold approaches build charater, Internet dating to become skilled requires a lot of work. When I say skilled I mean 30-40 chics lined up wanting dates, so much so that u need a calendar to sort em all.

all from sending out a few emails.........not bad for 29 bucks.
 

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Any more tips on how to pick up net girls? What do open with and how to advance the stages?
 

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Are there any real women on the Craigs list casual encounters, or are they all spam bots and web cam hos?

Has anyone used adultfriendfinder to find a hookup lately? How about xpeeps?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Most women on Craigs casual encounters are BBW looking for guys that are packing 8 inchers. But do look for women in strictly platonic who are looking to do something with enjoy with a like minded person ie surfing, snowboarding or sailing buddies. I think it may help to have a general interest in the activity. You can try the w4m or post adds but women there get TONS of responses very quickly. You kind of have to troll there for a while and message the girls as soon as they pop up.

AFF is very iffy. If you are looking for hot young girls to screw, forget it. If you just want sex, go after the older women 40ish and or couples looking for threesomes.

Unfortunately I don't know how to use the dating sites or the myspaces to pick up hot young women. I guess I should get some more hobbies.
 
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