OK congradulations you are effectivly extracting numbers (you should be getting at least 5-8 numbers per week) in the field or via internet (slightly higher). When those numbers start rolling in, it almost feels like a super power.
Keep in mind a few facts:
A) For every 3 women you try to seduce a number from: 1 WILL always be legit and easy to extract, 1-will fall into the reluctant/on the fence/maybe category and 1 will be a NO/FLAKE or hand you a fake number. Forget trying to seduce the NO. It's a dead set for numerous reasons and a good PUA knows when to move on. Focus your energy converting the maybes into a solid yes. 2/3 women are par for the course.
B) 70% OF THE CHICS IN CLUBS HAND OUT FAKE NUMBERS OR FLAKE WHEN U CALL THEM.
C) THERE ARE WAYS TO REDUCE FLAKES/FAKES
OK so how do u avoid getting phony numbers/flakes........glad you asked. Most fake numbers or flakes come from the 3 minute email/number extraction. To DECREASE your rejection ratio, you need to INCREASE your comfort/rapport phase.......ummm around 10-15 minutes should do. The numbers you extract will be solid ones and the flakes will be minimized.
If you are speed seducing someone JUST to get their numbers and want to decrease your fake flakes try these:
1) Ask if she has a cell phone (verbatum, do not deviate from that word phrasing) Don't say can I get your number, so whats your number, can I call you sometime, etc. Saying any of those often triggers a memory and instantly lablels you as a J.A.G.(just another guy hitting on her). When she pulls it out u can take it and enter your number and hit send, thereby having her # on your cell. Later on give her a call and tell her to add you.
2) Similar to number 1 but a slight variation. Take out your cell the same time she takes out her phone.......ask for her number....call it right then & there, then tell her to add you and spell out your name for her. ANY HESITATION/EXCUSE..............move on.
3) ask for her number then repeat the last 4 digits out of sequencial order. SHE says 1234.......you repeat saying thats 4321 right.........if she corrects you its legit.
4) OPT for email/IM user name/service instead.........then ask for her number via internet. This is less threatening than just asking for her digits.
Never supplicate and volunteer your number when she gives the old...give me your number instead. MOVE ON!!! You can trade but NEVER EVER give your number out........she has to earn that from you.
mj
Keep in mind a few facts:
A) For every 3 women you try to seduce a number from: 1 WILL always be legit and easy to extract, 1-will fall into the reluctant/on the fence/maybe category and 1 will be a NO/FLAKE or hand you a fake number. Forget trying to seduce the NO. It's a dead set for numerous reasons and a good PUA knows when to move on. Focus your energy converting the maybes into a solid yes. 2/3 women are par for the course.
B) 70% OF THE CHICS IN CLUBS HAND OUT FAKE NUMBERS OR FLAKE WHEN U CALL THEM.
C) THERE ARE WAYS TO REDUCE FLAKES/FAKES
OK so how do u avoid getting phony numbers/flakes........glad you asked. Most fake numbers or flakes come from the 3 minute email/number extraction. To DECREASE your rejection ratio, you need to INCREASE your comfort/rapport phase.......ummm around 10-15 minutes should do. The numbers you extract will be solid ones and the flakes will be minimized.
If you are speed seducing someone JUST to get their numbers and want to decrease your fake flakes try these:
1) Ask if she has a cell phone (verbatum, do not deviate from that word phrasing) Don't say can I get your number, so whats your number, can I call you sometime, etc. Saying any of those often triggers a memory and instantly lablels you as a J.A.G.(just another guy hitting on her). When she pulls it out u can take it and enter your number and hit send, thereby having her # on your cell. Later on give her a call and tell her to add you.
2) Similar to number 1 but a slight variation. Take out your cell the same time she takes out her phone.......ask for her number....call it right then & there, then tell her to add you and spell out your name for her. ANY HESITATION/EXCUSE..............move on.
3) ask for her number then repeat the last 4 digits out of sequencial order. SHE says 1234.......you repeat saying thats 4321 right.........if she corrects you its legit.
4) OPT for email/IM user name/service instead.........then ask for her number via internet. This is less threatening than just asking for her digits.
Never supplicate and volunteer your number when she gives the old...give me your number instead. MOVE ON!!! You can trade but NEVER EVER give your number out........she has to earn that from you.
mj