mestiz0
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Looking for an accomplice to go hit up clubs/bars... Anyone interested, get at me.
(I'm 28)
(I'm 28)
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Houston, Tx
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mestiz0
New Member
C'mon H-town! Lets get some hoez, damn..
Nexus Polaris
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I'm up for it. You still looking for a wing?
TheFlyOne
Don Juan
Htown in the building!! :rockon:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
the_absolute
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I was thinking of taking a trip to Htown for that purpose sometime in the soonish future. I'd be looking to close at least one BiBabe 8+ and a whatever for fun babe 8+ on that night. I could bring my biBabe9 wing/Gf too. What's the best hotel for that ****?
where do you approach?IamRa said:I am your man, lets go out and get some.
TheFlyOne
Don Juan
Where do you guys usually hang out?
Nexus Polaris
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Looking for a wing here in Houston. Any of you guys up to it?
My current circle of friends are great people, but they suck at winging.
My current circle of friends are great people, but they suck at winging.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.