"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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House full of different women's products.

CaptFinnBad

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Currently having a bit of a sort out and organise.

I've got so many different women's products in my house, nail stuff, serums , hair products e.t.c.

Got different sexy outfits, toys, e.t.c.

All from different women, not quite sure what to do with it. Currently there is only one women , she actually doesn't have much stuff here.

She has seen other women products, so have previous girlfriends. They kinda just accept it?, when I brush it off

Now I'm having an organise. I don't know what to do with it. Do I keep some of it ? Dump it all in a women's product draw or something? Or just chuck it all out now I'm having a declutter.

Probably wise to chuck out the sexy stuff.

Women I'm seeing now has potential, still early days. Though I'm seriously considering, starting to see other women alongside her.

That's why I'm thinking just keep all the women's beauty products dumped in a draw (neatly and not hidden). That way the current women in seeing still knows I'm dating / potentially dating without her asking questions, like "who's is this" or whatever.

Same with any future women.


Honestly I'm a bit clueless on this one. I've only really seen one women T a time before.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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CaptFinnBad

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you're the man
Not really. I feel a bit of an idiot for posting this thread and being so clueless with what to do.

I dumped most of it. Just rammed random bits and pieces in a spare bathroom draw and all hair products in a basket in a bathroom unit.

I think I'll bury my head in the sand from point, got more important things to do lol
 

The Duke

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I'd throw it all away. It's good to have a spare tooth brush for each one of your female guests and let them figure that out but anything more and it will bring out insecurities and cause drama at some point. It's like rubbing it in their face.
 

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I've got so many different women's products in my house, nail stuff, serums , hair products e.t.c.

Got different sexy outfits, toys, e.t.c.
Get rid of those throw rugs and lamp shades you sowed together from the flesh of these gals, before The 5-0 kicks in your door in the middle of the night. You'll be golden thereafter
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I use to keep a box of stuff women would leave you know bra's, panties, hair ties, earrings etc.
But guess what women never came back or asked for it, eventually I got rid of it cause it felt weird like I was keeping trophies of conqeusts past.

Nowadays if a woman leaves something I text her if she comes to get it great if not I throw it away
 

justaroundthecorner

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Throw it away, what is the point of keeping it? Trophies of conquests? Showing off to women you date that you have or had options? It's just old stuff that nobody will pick up.
 
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