"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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House full of different women's products.

CaptFinnBad

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Currently having a bit of a sort out and organise.

I've got so many different women's products in my house, nail stuff, serums , hair products e.t.c.

Got different sexy outfits, toys, e.t.c.

All from different women, not quite sure what to do with it. Currently there is only one women , she actually doesn't have much stuff here.

She has seen other women products, so have previous girlfriends. They kinda just accept it?, when I brush it off

Now I'm having an organise. I don't know what to do with it. Do I keep some of it ? Dump it all in a women's product draw or something? Or just chuck it all out now I'm having a declutter.

Probably wise to chuck out the sexy stuff.

Women I'm seeing now has potential, still early days. Though I'm seriously considering, starting to see other women alongside her.

That's why I'm thinking just keep all the women's beauty products dumped in a draw (neatly and not hidden). That way the current women in seeing still knows I'm dating / potentially dating without her asking questions, like "who's is this" or whatever.

Same with any future women.


Honestly I'm a bit clueless on this one. I've only really seen one women T a time before.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CaptFinnBad

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you're the man
Not really. I feel a bit of an idiot for posting this thread and being so clueless with what to do.

I dumped most of it. Just rammed random bits and pieces in a spare bathroom draw and all hair products in a basket in a bathroom unit.

I think I'll bury my head in the sand from point, got more important things to do lol
 

The Duke

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I'd throw it all away. It's good to have a spare tooth brush for each one of your female guests and let them figure that out but anything more and it will bring out insecurities and cause drama at some point. It's like rubbing it in their face.
 

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I've got so many different women's products in my house, nail stuff, serums , hair products e.t.c.

Got different sexy outfits, toys, e.t.c.
Get rid of those throw rugs and lamp shades you sowed together from the flesh of these gals, before The 5-0 kicks in your door in the middle of the night. You'll be golden thereafter
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I use to keep a box of stuff women would leave you know bra's, panties, hair ties, earrings etc.
But guess what women never came back or asked for it, eventually I got rid of it cause it felt weird like I was keeping trophies of conqeusts past.

Nowadays if a woman leaves something I text her if she comes to get it great if not I throw it away
 

justaroundthecorner

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Throw it away, what is the point of keeping it? Trophies of conquests? Showing off to women you date that you have or had options? It's just old stuff that nobody will pick up.
 
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