"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hottie wants me... Blew her off? How to recover?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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betterthandead

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That's nice that you're not posting under your other name.

Alright, you pretty much f*cked up. Forget it, seriously. You can try but now she's going to be more guarded against you. To tell you the truth, you probably weren't that interested in her that much.

joe_20 said:
So we've gone out a few times, and tonight I basically blew her off with no call. We were exchanging calls and texts all night, and she was really pushing for us to meet somehow. When I last left it I told her I'd see her later that night at a bar she was going to with her friends. Yada yada yada - I didn't go and didn't call.

For a while I thought I should text her apologizing, but then I realized that everytime I've been that nice to a women I end up losing her.

Did I make the right move? How can I recover / keep increasing her interest level? Any advice is much appreciated.
 
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