"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Brilliant- the majority of those look quick and easy, as it should be.
 

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Great post brah!

I just feel bad coz I cant have those hairstyles that requires you to pull your hair waaay back, my hair is very disobedient it just pops back to my forehead after a while :(
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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at 4:10 is how i have my hair done before i go out except that the sides are number 1 and it goes to a v shape at the back with a beardline

its my way of peacocking :D

my personal faveourite is style number 27 though
 

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This is great.
 

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Man some of these hairstyle kick ass. Anime styles are weird though, they seemed novelty to me--but maybe they score you poon in Japan?

Cool video though it's saved in my Youtube favorites.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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wtf is happening on this forum? ur all gay. hair threads? are u men or girls? gahh cant stand guys who have girly hair. might aswell be a girl. i got a buuzz cut. real mans hair cut. prison break style. thats what WOMEN want!
 

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chance said:
wtf is happening on this forum? ur all gay. hair threads? are u men or girls? gahh cant stand guys who have girly hair. might aswell be a girl. i got a buuzz cut. real mans hair cut. prison break style. thats what WOMEN want!
I lost some hair too but I realised that hating those lucky ones who still looked like they were 18 wasn't the answer.
Btw I'm sure that when Jesus will be back,if asked he'll double the hair just like he did with the fish and wine.
 

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My hair is pretty long atm, i want my fringe to the length of my chin. Short hair doesnt suit me as im sure long hair doesnt suit some guys.
 

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any guy with long hair in most womens eyes are not a man. it just looks too boyish/feminine. look at bruce willis, would he still look bad ass with hair over his eyes, or down to his chin? just sayin, it's kinda gay when guys put so much effort into their hair. like sometimes i see guys with perfect shiny straight hair combed over their eyes. it disgusts me to see men looking like girls.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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chance said:
any guy with long hair in most womens eyes are not a man. it just looks too boyish/feminine. look at bruce willis, would he still look bad ass with hair over his eyes, or down to his chin? just sayin, it's kinda gay when guys put so much effort into their hair. like sometimes i see guys with perfect shiny straight hair combed over their eyes. it disgusts me to see men looking like girls.
Agreed, but some guys can pull long hair of with out looking feminine. Eg. Russle brand.
 

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excuse me, girls like hair and shoes, proven fact, one of the first things they look at on a dude, so I always take care of both well ;)
 

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For the most part girls don't like gel or any of that sht in your hair. I've been told that by multiple sources. Girls DO like normal clean, shampooed/conditioned hair. I just use head and shoulders and it works great. Certain girls I know love to run their fingers through my hair and comment on how soft it is. You can't do that with sticky gel. I used to do the whole gel thing and a girl I was with at the time said she didn't like it.

Honestly I think the dudes in the video look better without the sht in their hair anyway.
 

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Anyway those guys are scandinavian model look-a-like whatever sh1t they put on their hair they'll look more attractive than most of us normal men.
So before doing anything extreme guys,think twice.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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