"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Guys got to stop referring women as "hot".

This is giving women the power.

Why don't you seek out women with character and true internal beauty?

As difficult as it is to believe once you do that you'll find in your life more women than you could handle.

I never get how men can put on this bravado that they are not affected by attractive women in their real life experiences, yet behind closed doors or among their friends they talk about women being "hot", how much they'd like to smash them, or do X or Y to them. This kind of talk takes your power away and is the reason why these kinds of threads appear even in a place privileged as sosuave where men have the available information to liberate their minds.

The moment I stopped referring to any woman as "hot" was the moment I began to actually treat them like regular people. What happened was that I found a lot of traits of the women I met repulsive. What did it do for them? They began to chase because they found someone who didn't see her as anything special from the rest, unless she has earned it.

I wish more people shared this view...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I like Marissa. But I tend to go to girls who stand out and have a different face. And I tend to like girls with a unique nose lol. Like I totally loved ashlee simpson before her nose job because she was unqiue and rare and didnt fit into the typical mold of hollywood beauty.

So yeah. Marissa for me
 

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Jaylan said:
I like Marissa. But I tend to go to girls who stand out and have a different face. And I tend to like girls with a unique nose lol. Like I totally loved ashlee simpson before her nose job because she was unqiue and rare and didnt fit into the typical mold of hollywood beauty.

So yeah. Marissa for me

Did you click on Feature Hotties? More of a selection to choose from
 

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I think the fact that Olga is the most exposed is why she is leading...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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StevieD said:
They say looks are subjective.... but I think as guys we prefer a certain type of women.

Which girl on regionalhotties.com do you find the hottest? I think Marissa blows the rest away. If a lot of you don't agree I would be very surprised...
Olga is the best but she looks kinda ugly in the main picture they use for her. Basically:

Olga - Hot, would bang

Marissa - Would turn down (no seriously I would, not just saying it) except in this picture: http://regionalhotties.com/Marissab/marissab3.png

Leslie - Quite hot would bang

Whitney - Would turn down

Alena - Looks like she's in her 40s with kids, might say no but need more pictures to determine... Ah **** it no I'd probably say yes

Kendra - Would turn down

Claudia - Would shag

Courtney - Would reject her, except in this one photo: http://regionalhotties.com/Courtney/courtneye2.jpg ... Hmm and this too: http://regionalhotties.com/Courtney/courtneye1.jpg

Amanda - Wtf, no... Seriously no...
 

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MurdocIsGod said:
Olga is the best but she looks kinda ugly in the main picture they use for her. Basically:

Olga - Hot, would bang

Marissa - Would turn down (no seriously I would, not just saying it) except in this picture: http://regionalhotties.com/Marissab/marissab3.png

Leslie - Quite hot would bang

Whitney - Would turn down

Alena - Looks like she's in her 40s with kids, might say no but need more pictures to determine... Ah **** it no I'd probably say yes

Kendra - Would turn down

Claudia - Would shag

Courtney - Would reject her, except in this one photo: http://regionalhotties.com/Courtney/courtneye2.jpg ... Hmm and this too: http://regionalhotties.com/Courtney/courtneye1.jpg

Amanda - Wtf, no... Seriously no...

Very interesting analysis. I see you would turn down Marissa and Whitney. Marissa I think is the hottest of them all (at least facially). Do you prefer lighter skin to those who are more tanned? I am just trying to see if there is more of a universal preference.

You also say Olga is hot, but Leslie is Quote Hot. Which would prefer of the 2?

And Alena is quite thin... how can you say she has kids lmao!
 

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StevieD said:
Very interesting analysis. I see you would turn down Marissa and Whitney. Marissa I think is the hottest of them all (at least facially). Do you prefer lighter skin to those who are more tanned? I am just trying to see if there is more of a universal preference.

You also say Olga is hot, but Leslie is Quote Hot. Which would prefer of the 2?

And Alena is quite thin... how can you say she has kids lmao!
I do prefer lighter skinned girls but tanned Spanish types can still be very hot to me.

I'd prefer Olga to Leslie...

And yeah haha Alena I just thought looked like a typical middle aged mum, just in good shape :p
 

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MurdocIsGod said:
I do prefer lighter skinned girls but tanned Spanish types can still be very hot to me.

I'd prefer Olga to Leslie...

And yeah haha Alena I just thought looked like a typical middle aged mum, just in good shape :p

I heard there are a couple of more coming next week. It will be interesting to see if certain nationalities play a role in a girl's overall look.
 

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I gotta go with Leslie, by far... Idk, just my type of girl lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I am not too impressed with the new girls added. Curious if any of you would hit any of them?
 

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Man if I saw one of these girls i would run so fast you wouldn't even see me in that place for 3 weeks and a half
 

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Groovy said:
Man if I saw one of these girls i would run so fast you wouldn't even see me in that place for 3 weeks and a half

LOL :box:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I meant Emily..... She seems like the type you will either find really hot or ugly
 
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