"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Hottest chicks of 2005/2006 (lots of hot pics as well)
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Mr. Unique
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What the F are you talking about? look at her in this pic
http://www.9sn.net/resim/limaphoto00259.jpg
nothing demonic about her look but its really innocent.
johnmich
Senior Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
johnmich
Senior Don Juan
http://images2.alloy.com/images/195x284/*****catdolls_nicole.jpg
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
johnmich
Senior Don Juan
http://channels.netscape.com/celebrity/gallery.jsp?floc=g_barton&gname=barton
Bonhomme
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I can not agree more.. she is perfection.. yet she seems to be forgotten in a lot of these polls (until someone mentions her and everyone starts to remember). She's the best I've seen, that's for sure.Originally posted by Tomatoes
My first choice is always without a doubt Miss Elisha Cuthbert. She is a goddess. Beauty in a women at true perfection.
Still not convinced? Watch the film "The Girl Next Door" She is unbeatable.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
SHE IS SOOOOOOO F*CKIN HOT.. out of all the girls here, she would turn me into a premature ejaculator all over again.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
johnmich
Senior Don Juan
Here are pictures of Elisha cuthbert from the movie Girl Next Door.
http://www.allsexycelebs.com/pics/elisha_cuthbert/pictures1.html
Here's my list:
1) Stockholm girls (or Swedes in general). I was there just a couple of days ago and again, I saw around 40 girls in 5 hours that beat every damn woman in that original post. I don't know what it is... Swedish women are a different race! Straight from heaven! If you don't believe me, just go there and you'll see. It's unbelievable how there on the streets can 5% of all women be super-hot.
2) Elisha Cuthbert. Sooooo hot. Nuff said.
3) That French chick Melissa. So natural beauty. Being naturally beautiful get's my points these days.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.