Zarky said:
Lumping women into various categories and assigning behaviors to them is never healthy.
I've been turned down by 2s and 'pursued' (hate that term) by 9s.
Each woman is different. Which is why I always say it's a numbers game. The only way to get quality is through quantity. Think of it as you would if you were looking for a used car. There are some high-priced pieces of trash out there as well as great cars priced cheap. But you won't know until you test drive lots.
wonderful advice
each woman is different, there is no magic formula. I would not treat a cute girl next door the same as I treat a woman who has 10 guys around her at a resturant with **** me pumps on and a skirt that doesn't go past her thigh.
With really hot women I have found from previous experience, it really just boils down to being you in the line of fire if that make sense, the line of fire being her hotness. The more you can show that you are not flustered by her being hot, the more it is not an issue to you, actually hot women are easier to bag from my experience. Once I actually, was not flustered, seriously not flustered around my oneitis I had her eating out my hand.
think about it like this, I actually feel somewhat bad for seriously hot women because they never get to met real men, and get to see the real side of men, all the see are guys worshiping them, charashing them, telling them how great they are, sucking up to them, but they don't' met many men, who aren't afraid to tell a crude joke, who aren't afraid to tell her to shut up when she says something ****ing stupid, who arent' afraid to lose her, just becuase she's hot. Or they get the exact opposite, teh guy who knows he doesn't want to be a chump so he is just a ****ing jerk because he has figured out that nice guys don't get ***** but that's all he has figured out.
but she hasn't' found a guy who can be HIM in the line of fire. Be funny, be able to go out for ice cream and tell her hey i don't care if you called, i'm busy, you are going ot have to hit me back, to say say hey i know you are hot but you are still ****ign wrong. to say yes, your hotness qualifies you for me, it doesn't make you the one just because you are cute.
hot women yarn for that. Be that man.
I made a post about this really hot 19 year old girl yesterday, guys i ought to post pics she was smokin and she knew it. We were sitting in meeting one day and this one guy, he really should have came to thsi site, he was..somewhat disturbed mentally, he knew the girl had a traffic court date coming up and she said off hand she wished someone would go with her becuase she was nervous. it was actually somewhat cute in a twisted kinda way, this guy, he was about 6'0, 230, and wasn't good looking but he had a heart of gold, got dressed up, pressed his clothes and was ready to go with her, he even showed up early. that actually for some reason touched me, why i don't know.
this ****ing ****, basically told him that she didn't have room or something like that, and then laughed at him when he left. she hurt his feelings. i tore that ***** a new one, that really got under my skin. all the guys were saying oh he's creepy oh he's this i said no *****, he did what you told him to do, and you at the very least could tell him like a ****ing woman that hey, i don't like you like that, but who the **** are you to sit there and laugh at someone who put that much thought into YOU, who doesn't deserve it, i was actually yelling at her i was so pissed, why this got to me so much i don't know but she lit a ****ing fire under my ass that day. I told her no, if it were someone you wanted to **** you'd have no prob lem making room, but jsut because you don't want to **** the guy doesn't mean you have to be a ****ing *****.
guys, i could literary see her getting wet as i was talking. at that point i wanted nothing to do with her, one i was taken but even if i weren't, she had disqualified herself with that childish ass ****, i don't **** kids. She went from being this 'oh i dont' know who to date, who am i going to go on a date with tongiht oh but he's so cute blah' to following me around like a wet dog overnight. she later told me no guy has ever had to balls to talk to her like that and that she respected me for that and really wanted to get to know me better (even though i was in a relationship and she not only knew it she knew her). and it old her point blank, she has to grow up, i'm not interested and i meant it, we can be cool but nothing like that is going down, and we were cool and at any point i could have had her, she knew it and i knew it. And i would be lying if i said the thought did not cross my mind, but not too seriously, wasn't worth it. once i got engaged i figured it's not cool to just keep 19 year old hot women around for no reason, that's not very nice, so i cut it off, but man, all these women want is a man that is not intimidated by the way they look.
