"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hotter=Dumber?

WORKEROUTER

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Currently I go to uni and live around the Greek area. Anyway, I have to say...some of the HOTTEST chicks in school are in sororities.

But I have noticed something...I simply cannot stand these type of girls! They're so wrapped up in themselves that they are totally oblivious to the bigger world around them. Their views on life seem to come from what sitcoms have told them all their lives! The other day I was sitting in the cafeteria, and these two HOT chicks sit in the table next to me. The first thing they start talking about is how they can't stand some other broad..and why she is such a b*tch, blah, blah...you get the point!

And so, despite them being hot, I never end up going for these girls because I don't think I have ANYTHING in common with me. I always end up going for the attractive girls who are more reserved and can actually hold half of a conversation that does't revolve around the latest gossip.

I have noticed this lately and was wondering if anyone else thinks along similair lines. It seems the problem is that the HOTTER a chick is (meaning, the more she focuses on attempts to make her look good), the more ignorant, naive, and close-minded she is about the world. This, in turn, results in me avoiding her simply because I wouldn't be able to join in her little games.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I always end up going for the attractive girls who are more reserved and can actually hold half of a conversation that does't revolve around the latest gossip.
I do the same the thing. I usually want the really shy girl that keeps looking at me, rather than sum skank who won't shutup about herself. Some guys have their minds messed up, and all crowd around the wh0re. She's like a magnet and they're all iron nails.
I don't really care, there's a much better girl sitting all by herself. :up:
 

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i think you are right that there is an unproprtinate amount of hot girls that are dumb, but its not like all hot girls are dumb, still a minority of them just a higher percantage of them.
 

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There's that ellusive girl who isn't just clever but also amazingly good looking - I'd regard that as marriage material.:woo:
 

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I think many of those very good looking women do not devote a big percentage of their brains to being more open minded because they have always had it easy in life.

It's one of those things...beautiful chicks can get almost everything they want by simply displaying their smile and their assets at the right time. This works especially on men, and exclusively on the weaker men.

When everything is easy in life, why would someone put an effort to become more knowledgeable and open minded ?
If it ain't broke, dont fix it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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